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OT Kicking Effexor!

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Fil, have you tried diet caffeine-free Coke?  Before my surgery I found it easy to switch from regular diet Coke and I actually liked the taste of the caffeine-free better.  [Since the surgery I can only drink bottled water for some reason - oh and coffee.]

Yes I have…and I keep it in stock.  Decaf Diet Pepsi too.  Without it, I’d be sucking back 5-6 cans of the high test a day.  If I’m just thirsty, decaf diet is a workable bait-and-switch.  It does nothing for the caffeine cravings, the headaches, the morning ritual of stumbling into things, mixing up words, dropping stuff and disorientation, or the unspeakable pepsi fantasies.  (I’m awful in the mornings.  I lose my balance and fall into walls/doors, or I don’t notice stuff and walk into it, or drop stuff onto myself, and am usually carrying a few bruises at any given time.) –Fil SO not a morning person that it isn’t even funny

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No I dont Mary because I’m diabetic and orange juice has a lot of sugar but I love navel oranges and eat plenty of thosethe natural sugar seems to leave your system quicker thanks for telling me though, maybe I can find some other source, I’ll have a look around.   Jean.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them. Jean.P. Jean, my dad got these cramps and extra potassium helped him. Do you have your orange juice every day?

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Thanks to you too Howard, you learn something every day.             Jean.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them. Jean.P. Jean, my dad got these cramps and extra potassium helped him. Do you have your orange juice every day? Good observation. That does need to be done with awareness of any cardiac drugs that affect potassium metabolism.

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Thanks again howard I will take this information on board   Jean.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them. Jean.P. Quinine is indeed related to cardiac drugs such as quinidine, and I can see reasons for concern. There’s a range of disorders between nocturnal leg cramps and restless leg syndrome, and it’s possible that treating restless leg syndrome might relieve the cramps. The treatment of the latter tends to use anticonvulsants and related drugs. A reasonably safe and low-side-effect drug would be a low dose of clonazepam near bedtime, which has anticonvulsant, tranquilizing, and muscle relaxant properties. Alternatives could include more classic anticonvulsants such as gabapentin or carbemazepine, or conceivably an anti-spasticity drug such as baclofen. Whenever there’s a chronic cramping condition, it can be wise to put the patient on a regular, often low dose of anti-inflammatory drugs such as ibuprofen. Without going too biochemical, there’s evidence that cramping and related muscle problems cause the release of inflammatory substances. The benefit, from a biological basis, is that it tends to force someone to keep an injured muscle still.  In practice, that reaction from the autonomous nervous system may make the muscle problem considerably more painful, and spiral into making it worse and worse.

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No I dont Mary because I’m diabetic and orange juice has a lot of sugar but I love navel oranges and eat plenty of thosethe natural sugar seems to leave your system quicker thanks for telling me though, maybe I can find some other source, I’ll have a look around.   Jean.

I am diabetic as well, and have been told that natural fruit is better for me than fruit juice.  The added fiber in the whole fruit slows the absorption of the sugar.  I still have to be careful that I don’t overdo the quantity. — PGP key available from http://pgp.mit.edu "Reserve your right to think, for even to think wrongly is better than not to think at all." — Hypatia of Alexandria

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 My late mother took Quinine for years to help with cramp,   In the end she became deaf,  and the quinine was blamed for it .   Marie from  OZ

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them. Jean.P. Good for you! We’re all purring and praying that things keep going well! And if you decide at some point that you want a medicine OTHER than Effexor, talk to your doctor about the ones that are available that have fewer side effects than the Effexor does. BTW, I hear you BIG TIME about the "time to ditch caffeine" decision. In my case, last year when I had to go on blood pressure meds (to control a BP that’d risen to something like 132/100 and 132/98), I decided that all but the first cup of coffee in the morning had to go. I hate taking meds unless I absolutely, positively HAVE to. And there’s no logic in taking BP meds, then undoing their benefit by caffeinating my blood pressure back up to an unhealthy level, right? So all coffee, tea, and other beverages after the first cup of the morning are now decaf or non-caffeinated. BTW, the BP has now been controlled with the meds, to the point where it’s at a normal level again. It took a few months to get the dose right, but things seem OK now. I’m not surprised that I ended up on meds, given the history of high blood pressure that’s rampant on both sides of my family. I’m reaching an age (early 40s) where some of the family’s genetic time bombs are going to start showing up, if I’ve inherited any of them. Purrs and prayers that you keep doing well! Donna, Captain, and Stanley

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Your right there John, I try to make it one in the early evening, but sometimes I get greedy and steal another one and I’ve noticed the difference. I guess I dont always do the right thing by my diabetes but I try, sometimes I can’t help saying to myself, come on your 72 surely you can relax a little sometimes, after all I might go out tomorrow and walk under a bus, just joking {a bit.}   Jean.P. – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – No I dont Mary because I’m diabetic and orange juice has a lot of sugar but I love navel oranges and eat plenty of thosethe natural sugar seems to leave your system quicker thanks for telling me though, maybe I can find some other source, I’ll have a look around.   Jean. I am diabetic as well, and have been told that natural fruit is better for me than fruit juice.  The added fiber in the whole fruit slows the absorption of the sugar.  I still have to be careful that I don’t overdo the quantity. — PGP key available from http://pgp.mit.edu "Reserve your right to think, for even to think wrongly is better than not to think at all." — Hypatia of Alexandria

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My god my kids reckon I’m deaf, I am a bit too. Well I’m not taking it any more now thogh it was pretty bad last night because it was the 3rd night withoutso its not going to get any better from now on.  Jean.P.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My late mother took Quinine for years to help with cramp,   In the end she became deaf,  and the quinine was blamed for it .   Marie from  OZ My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them. Jean.P. Good for you! We’re all purring and praying that things keep going well! And if you decide at some point that you want a medicine OTHER than Effexor, talk to your doctor about the ones that are available that have fewer side effects than the Effexor does. BTW, I hear you BIG TIME about the "time to ditch caffeine" decision. In my case, last year when I had to go on blood pressure meds (to control a BP that’d risen to something like 132/100 and 132/98), I decided that all but the first cup of coffee in the morning had to go. I hate taking meds unless I absolutely, positively HAVE to. And there’s no logic in taking BP meds, then undoing their benefit by caffeinating my blood pressure back up to an unhealthy level, right? So all coffee, tea, and other beverages after the first cup of the morning are now decaf or non-caffeinated. BTW, the BP has now been controlled with the meds, to the point where it’s at a normal level again. It took a few months to get the dose right, but things seem OK now. I’m not surprised that I ended up on meds, given the history of high blood pressure that’s rampant on both sides of my family. I’m reaching an age (early 40s) where some of the family’s genetic time bombs are going to start showing up, if I’ve inherited any of them. Purrs and prayers that you keep doing well! Donna, Captain, and Stanley

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Bananas & prunes are good for potassium, too. :) Katz

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them. Jean.P. Jean, my dad got these cramps and extra potassium helped him. Do you have your orange juice every day?

Good observation. That does need to be done with awareness of any cardiac drugs that affect potassium metabolism.

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them.     Jean.P.

Quinine is indeed related to cardiac drugs such as quinidine, and I can see reasons for concern. There’s a range of disorders between nocturnal leg cramps and restless leg syndrome, and it’s possible that treating restless leg syndrome might relieve the cramps. The treatment of the latter tends to use anticonvulsants and related drugs. A reasonably safe and low-side-effect drug would be a low dose of clonazepam near bedtime, which has anticonvulsant, tranquilizing, and muscle relaxant properties. Alternatives could include more classic anticonvulsants such as gabapentin or carbemazepine, or conceivably an anti-spasticity drug such as baclofen.   Whenever there’s a chronic cramping condition, it can be wise to put the patient on a regular, often low dose of anti-inflammatory drugs such as ibuprofen. Without going too biochemical, there’s evidence that cramping and related muscle problems cause the release of inflammatory substances. The benefit, from a biological basis, is that it tends to force someone to keep an injured muscle still.  In practice, that reaction from the autonomous nervous system may make the muscle problem considerably more painful, and spiral into making it worse and worse.

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Honestly, after that first night of barfing, I haven’t felt bad at all.  

Stupid Effexor.  I find myself getting dizzy spells.  Usually I don’t get dizzy unless I’ve got a fever or exhausted myself running up stairs. They’re pretty mild though. Just annoying. Nothing next to 6 this morning–I woke up from a pepsi dream barely able to swallow, throat dry, ears plugged with mucus, and ribbons of stinking mucus in my nose and throat.  Granted, the room was dry, and I do have rhinitis–mucus isn’t anything new–but that Pepsi was just /soooooo/ good.  Oooo, the fizzle in the ears as it moistened the dryness and helped me swallow the gunk or cough it out.  Soothing the pain of my throat with its icy wetness.  I fell right back to sleep and slept like a baby until 10. …and I’ve had a diet dr pepper and another pepsi since then…of course, I’ve also written 10 pages of postgrad term paper.  I am not cutting back caffeine until Tuesday when the paper is done. But I don’t think I’ll ever be able to give up the blue can delight entirely… –Fil

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Honestly, after that first night of barfing, I haven’t felt bad at all. Stupid Effexor.  I find myself getting dizzy spells.  Usually I don’t get dizzy unless I’ve got a fever or exhausted myself running up stairs. They’re pretty mild though. Just annoying. Nothing next to 6 this morning–I woke up from a pepsi dream barely able to swallow, throat dry, ears plugged with mucus, and ribbons of stinking mucus in my nose and throat.  Granted, the room was dry, and I do have rhinitis–mucus isn’t anything new–but that Pepsi was just /soooooo/ good.  Oooo, the fizzle in the ears as it moistened the dryness and helped me swallow the gunk or cough it out.  Soothing the pain of my throat with its icy wetness.  I fell right back to sleep and slept like a baby until 10. …and I’ve had a diet dr pepper and another pepsi since then…of course, I’ve also written 10 pages of postgrad term paper.  I am not cutting back caffeine until Tuesday when the paper is done. But I don’t think I’ll ever be able to give up the blue can delight entirely… –Fil

Fil, have you tried diet caffeine-free Coke?  Before my surgery I found it easy to switch from regular diet Coke and I actually liked the taste of the caffeine-free better.  [Since the surgery I can only drink bottled water for some reason - oh and coffee.] Hugs, CatNipped

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My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them. Jean.P.

Jean, my dad got these cramps and extra potassium helped him. Do you have your orange juice every day?

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I’m not as badly addicted this time around, but there is nothing better in life than that first cup of Java in the morning. Its often the only one I have during the day (I’ll usually drink decaf or hot chocolate if I want a hot beverage, and water if I want something cool) but darn I enjoy that first coffee far too much.///

Oh I *SO* hear you about the coffee addiction. I’m a veritable pitbull until I’ve had at least one cup of coffee when I get up. The only purrson who doesn’t keep a low profile in the mornings is HRFL Tiger, and even *he* gets fairly short shift! ;o) Helen M

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Lots of purrs and best wishes, — Polonca & Soncek

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Here it is…the first day without Effexor. Honestly, after that first night of barfing, I haven’t felt bad at all.  If anything, I’ve felt BETTER because I no longer need to sleep more than 10 hours a day (was pushing 16 mandatory sleep hours in every 24 when I quit).  Therefore, I only nap if I get less than 10 hours at night.  All this stuff is getting done, and it’s awesome.  I even have time to watch TV or read comic books again. Mood’s better instead of worse–with this energy and fire back, I feel like I could rule the world.  As long as my fire doesn’t spill over into rage, all is good. Now to address the caffeine addiction.  THIS bastard I’ve been fighting for six years to control.  I’m sucking back three cans of pop a day again and I’ve got to cut this out…I can feel the stomach damage returning.  Starting Monday, when my term paper is done, it’s down to one. –Mary

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My Dr has just had to urge me togo off Quinine which I take for cramp in my legs at night, it has been decided that Quinine is bad for older people in that it affects the electrodes or some sort of electric things round your heartso I stopped taking them as I already have angina, but boy  the cramps are pretty bad, and the Dr couldn’t find anything to replace the tablets, all these tablets they are now finding are ‘dangerous’ makes you wonder just what we are putting into ourselves when the Dr’s  put you on medication, one lot of BP tablets could have killed me if I hadn’t MADE my ‘then’ Dr listen to what I’d been telling him for months eventually he took blood tests and found my kidneys were in a very bad way, fortunately he’d heard me at last and I recovered when he took me off them.     Jean.P.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Good for you! We’re all purring and praying that things keep going well! And if you decide at some point that you want a medicine OTHER than Effexor, talk to your doctor about the ones that are available that have fewer side effects than the Effexor does. BTW, I hear you BIG TIME about the "time to ditch caffeine" decision. In my case, last year when I had to go on blood pressure meds (to control a BP that’d risen to something like 132/100 and 132/98), I decided that all but the first cup of coffee in the morning had to go. I hate taking meds unless I absolutely, positively HAVE to. And there’s no logic in taking BP meds, then undoing their benefit by caffeinating my blood pressure back up to an unhealthy level, right? So all coffee, tea, and other beverages after the first cup of the morning are now decaf or non-caffeinated. BTW, the BP has now been controlled with the meds, to the point where it’s at a normal level again. It took a few months to get the dose right, but things seem OK now. I’m not surprised that I ended up on meds, given the history of high blood pressure that’s rampant on both sides of my family. I’m reaching an age (early 40s) where some of the family’s genetic time bombs are going to start showing up, if I’ve inherited any of them. Purrs and prayers that you keep doing well! Donna, Captain, and Stanley

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Headaches, nausea and the cravings were horrendous. It took about 3 months for the cravings to subside, but they didn’t ever go away entirely (not ever beign a smoker, I’m not sure what giving up smoking is like, but its probably similar)

I kicked caffeine for six months during the worst of the ulcers, probably because I was so doped up on painkillers and/or passed out when they didn’t work well enough, that I couldn’t notice the headaches that much.  I’m back fighting now…going into overdrive once the term paper is done.  Must get back to a can of pop a day. Some people think it’s FUNNY when you have dreams of singing, dancing pepsi cans and then wake up choking from dry throat and going berserk with cravings…. –Fil (Had a cherry cigarillo once and liked it so much that I never touched one again.  I don’t need another addiction and lung cancer.  A half-rotted digestive system and the singing, dancing pepsi can hallucinations are quite enough)

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On 2005-04-14, Enfilade penned: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Here it is…the first day without Effexor. Honestly, after that first night of barfing, I haven’t felt bad at all.  If anything, I’ve felt BETTER because I no longer need to sleep more than 10 hours a day (was pushing 16 mandatory sleep hours in every 24 when I quit).  Therefore, I only nap if I get less than 10 hours at night.  All this stuff is getting done, and it’s awesome.  I even have time to watch TV or read comic books again. Mood’s better instead of worse–with this energy and fire back, I feel like I could rule the world.  As long as my fire doesn’t spill over into rage, all is good. Now to address the caffeine addiction.  THIS bastard I’ve been fighting for six years to control.  I’m sucking back three cans of pop a day again and I’ve got to cut this out…I can feel the stomach damage returning.  Starting Monday, when my term paper is done, it’s down to one. –Mary

Good luck with both drugs!  But are you sure you want to kick both at once?  Caffeine’s the only physical addiction I’ve ever had, and it’s a bad one.  I fully support your plan to kick that stuff, but maybe just try to kick the Effexor first?  Just a thought. One problem I had with caffeine was that I would use it as an "upper." Instead of saying, "I would like a coffee," I would say, "I am really tired this morning; I need some caffeine."  Then my sleep patterns would get all screwy and I wouldn’t sleep well, so I’d need more caffeine … and so it went. Now, if I forget to order decaf, I can’t sleep at all.  No matter what time of day I drank the stuff. — monique, who spoils Oscar unmercifully pictures: http://www.bounceswoosh.org/rpca

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Here it is…the first day without Effexor. Honestly, after that first night of barfing, I haven’t felt bad at all.  If anything, I’ve felt BETTER because I no longer need to sleep more than 10 hours a day (was pushing 16 mandatory sleep hours in every 24 when I quit).  Therefore, I only nap if I get less than 10 hours at night.  All this stuff is getting done, and it’s awesome.  I even have time to watch TV or read comic books again. Mood’s better instead of worse–with this energy and fire back, I feel like I could rule the world.  As long as my fire doesn’t spill over into rage, all is good. Now to address the caffeine addiction.  THIS bastard I’ve been fighting for six years to control.  I’m sucking back three cans of pop a day again and I’ve got to cut this out…I can feel the stomach damage returning.  Starting Monday, when my term paper is done, it’s down to one.

I don’t know about Effexor, but caffeine is one heck of a b*tch to kick. When I was pregnant, The Yowlet would not allow me to have any caffeine whatsoever, I’d immediatley chuck up all over the place if I had any. Of course, I was still addicted but couldn’t have any, and it wasn’t like I could just cut-down over time, I had to go cold turkey. It was aweful. Headaches, nausea and the cravings were horrendous. It took about 3 months for the cravings to subside, but they didn’t ever go away entirely (not ever beign a smoker, I’m not sure what giving up smoking is like, but its probably similar) I was lucky, because my caffeine addiction was in the form of coffee, and these days decaf coffee is pretty good, so I didn’thave to break the psychological habit as well as the physical habit. But as soon I stopped breast feeding Cary, I quickly became re-addicted (I made the mistake of having *one* cup of coffee whilst breast feeding Cary, and after him being full of nervous energy and then tired but unable to sleep for 8 hours, I didn’t try again till he was weaned). I’m not as badly addicted this time around, but there is nothing better in life than that first cup of Java in the morning. Its often the only one I have during the day (I’ll usually drink decaf or hot chocolate if I want a hot beverage, and water if I want something cool) but darn I enjoy that first coffee far too much. Yowie

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Here it is…the first day without Effexor.

Way to go! We’re purring that you continue doing as well. — Marina, Frank, Nikki, and introducing: Mere! marina (dot) kurten (at) pp (dot) inet (dot) fi Pics at http://uk.pg.photos.yahoo.com/ph/frankiennikki/ and http://community.webshots.com/user/frankiennikki

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– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Here it is…the first day without Effexor. Honestly, after that first night of barfing, I haven’t felt bad at all.  If anything, I’ve felt BETTER because I no longer need to sleep more than 10 hours a day (was pushing 16 mandatory sleep hours in every 24 when I quit).  Therefore, I only nap if I get less than 10 hours at night.  All this stuff is getting done, and it’s awesome.  I even have time to watch TV or read comic books again. Mood’s better instead of worse–with this energy and fire back, I feel like I could rule the world.  As long as my fire doesn’t spill over into rage, all is good. Now to address the caffeine addiction.  THIS bastard I’ve been fighting for six years to control.  I’m sucking back three cans of pop a day again and I’ve got to cut this out…I can feel the stomach damage returning.  Starting Monday, when my term paper is done, it’s down to one.

YAY!!!  I was so worried about what you might have to go knowing what I went through.  I’m glad it’s been so easy for you and *very* glad that you’re feeling so much better! Hugs, CatNipped – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – –Mary

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Here it is…the first day without Effexor.

<SNIP Mood’s better instead of worse–with this energy and fire back, I feel like I could rule the world.  As long as my fire doesn’t spill over into rage, all is good. Now to address the caffeine addiction.  THIS bastard I’ve been fighting for six years to control.  I’m sucking back three cans of pop a day again and I’ve got to cut this out…I can feel the stomach damage returning.  Starting Monday, when my term paper is done, it’s down to one. –Mary

If you’d like some advice on herbal remedies, both for the caffine & to help with the Effexor discomfort, e-mail me directly.  I may be able to help. I’d have mentioned this earlier, but while you were weaning off the drug, I didn’t want to suggest anything that might have been contra-indicated… — Mathew Butler to 2 kittens: Chablis & Muscat En Vino Veritas

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Good for you! We’re all purring and praying that things keep going well! And if you decide at some point that you want a medicine OTHER than Effexor, talk to your doctor about the ones that are available that have fewer side effects than the Effexor does. BTW, I hear you BIG TIME about the "time to ditch caffeine" decision. In my case, last year when I had to go on blood pressure meds (to control a BP that’d risen to something like 132/100 and 132/98), I decided that all but the first cup of coffee in the morning had to go. I hate taking meds unless I absolutely, positively HAVE to. And there’s no logic in taking BP meds, then undoing their benefit by caffeinating my blood pressure back up to an unhealthy level, right? So all coffee, tea, and other beverages after the first cup of the morning are now decaf or non-caffeinated. BTW, the BP has now been controlled with the meds, to the point where it’s at a normal level again. It took a few months to get the dose right, but things seem OK now. I’m not surprised that I ended up on meds, given the history of high blood pressure that’s rampant on both sides of my family. I’m reaching an age (early 40s) where some of the family’s genetic time bombs are going to start showing up, if I’ve inherited any of them. Purrs and prayers that you keep doing well! Donna, Captain, and Stanley

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Here it is…the first day without Effexor. Honestly, after that first night of barfing, I haven’t felt bad at all.  If anything, I’ve felt BETTER because I no longer need to sleep more than 10 hours a day (was pushing 16 mandatory sleep hours in every 24 when I quit).  Therefore, I only nap if I get less than 10 hours at night.  All this stuff is getting done, and it’s awesome.  I even have time to watch TV or read comic books again. Mood’s better instead of worse–with this energy and fire back, I feel like I could rule the world.  As long as my fire doesn’t spill over into rage, all is good. Now to address the caffeine addiction.  THIS bastard I’ve been fighting for six years to control.  I’m sucking back three cans of pop a day again and I’ve got to cut this out…I can feel the stomach damage returning.  Starting Monday, when my term paper is done, it’s down to one. –Mary

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And now the article I intended to post.  Also on Paul Jones site – www.mult-sclerosis.org ======================================= Medical Update Memo December 21, 2004 Summary BioMS Medical Corp. has announced that the first participants are being enrolled in a large, multi-centre, placebo controlled international clinical trial to test the potential benefit of a synthetic peptide called MBP8298 as a treatment for secondary-progressive MS. The first centre to enrol participants is the MS Clinic at St. Michael

Destroying the myth ends 'AIDS'. (Not homophobia)

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THE GREAT HIV / AIDS HOAX The multi-billion dollar AIDS/HIV fraud is based on two fabrications: that AIDS is a single disease

aids is a combination of 25 diseases and that it is caused by the HI virus

HIV attacks the immune system. When the immune system is weak any of 25 other diseases (opportunistic infections) can and do set in. Then you have what is called aids. The S in aids does not stand for virus.

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THE GREAT HIV / AIDS HOAX The multi-billion dollar AIDS/HIV fraud is based on two fabrications: that AIDS is a single disease and that it is caused by the HI virus or the "HIV virus" as some medical/media masterminds call it – perhaps they think the V in HIV stands for volcano. In Japan "AIDS" is virtually unknown : yet, in random tests, 25% of people were found to be "HIV-positive". HIV-positive response means nothing of any relevance to health: it can be triggered by vaccination, malnutrition, M.S., measles, influenza, papilloma virus wart, Epstein Barr virus, leprosy, glandular fever, hepatitis, syphillis … : over sixty different conditions. Dr Robert E. Willner, inoculated himself with the blood of Pedro Tocino, a HIV-positive haemophiliac, on live Spanish television: an event which was not picked up the pharma-beholden British or US media. The great HIV/AIDS lie was created by Robert Gallo who was found guilty of "scientific misconduct". "…instead of trying to prove his insane theories about AIDS to his peers…he went public. Then, with the help of Margaret Heckler, former head of Health and Human Services, who was under great political pressure to come up with an answer to AIDS, the infamous world press announcement of the discovery of the so-called AIDS virus came about. This great fraud is now responsible for the deaths of hundreds of thousands… It was no accident that Gallo just happened to patent the test for HIV the day after the announcement…Gallo is now a multi-millionaire because of AIDS and his fraudulent AIDS test." Dr. Willner. By grouping together 25-plus different diseases and other allied factors – pneumonia, herpes, candidiasis, salmonella, various cancers, infections, vaccine and antibiotic damage, amyl nitrate damage, malnutrition etc.and, particularly in Africa, TB, malaria, dysentery leprosy and "slim disease" – and calling the whole thing an "AIDS epidemic", a multi-billion dollar/pound "AIDS research and treatment" racket has been created. The mythical "HIV-induced AIDS plague" in the Third World generates huge sums of cash from Western relief organisations whilst smokescreening the vaccine/drug boys, responsible for the carnage. Every death of someone "HIV-positive" is recorded as an "AIDS death". Periodically, the BBC/ITV/Press visit Africa/Yugoslavia/Russia etc to report on the "HIV/AIDS victims" and how they cannot afford the "life-saving AZT." Glaxo Wellcome’s lethal drug, AZT, in combination with the diagnosis of HIV-positive and the prediction, stated or implied, that – "You will die of AIDS" is one of the great pieces of Medical Black Magic – Voodoo Medicine at its most impressive: people have committed suicide on the basis of the ludicrous diagnosis. Pregnant women who are HIV-positive have been told to stop breast-feeding, dosed with AZT, have had abortions or have been sterilised. HIV-positive babies who become ill -from vaccination or whatever – are automatically diagnosed as "suffering from AIDS". "Considering that there is little scientific proof of the exact linkage of HIV and AIDS, is it ethical to prescribe AZT, a toxic chain terminator of DNA…to 150,000 Americans – among them pregnant women and newborn babies..? Rep.G Gutknecht US House of Representatives. New Labour "Health" have now announced that all pregnant women in the UK will be "offered" a HIV test. Those who fall for the scam and who are diagnosed as "HIV positive" will be given the chance to have themselves and their unborn child permanently damaged by AZT etc. Pregnancy, itself, can cause a positive diagnosis. AZT began as a "cancer drug" but was withdrawn for being too toxic: like being thrown out of the Gestapo for cruelty. Its effects include – cancer, hepatitis, dementia, seizures, anxiety, impotence, leukopaenia, , severe nausea, ataxia, etc. and the termination of DNA synthesis. i.e. AIDS/death by prescription. AZT eventually kills all those who continue to take it. "WARNING : Retrovir (AZT)…has been associated with symptomatic myopathy, similar to that produced by Human Immunodeficiency Virus…" Glaxo Wellcome literature! None of which stops the medical trade from pushing it on every trusting sap who is not ill to start with but is labelled with the "HIV-positive" nonsense and then destroyed by AZT; with "AIDS" getting the blame – and more billions pouring in for the drug boys, vivisectors, animal breeders and the rest. The latest stunt is to give a "cocktail" of drugs – including AZT, of course, and at

Lump discovered during pregnancy

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In two weeks if the rare event they found something they could safely deliver the baby. They would wait until the baby is deliver until they started treatment. Pregnancy can do weird things to your body and chances are it is nothing.

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I wouldn’t worry about the two week delay.  If the lump were cancerous, the growth rates mean that isn’t long enough to make any difference (virtually always).

I hope you’re right. I guess I just know that if it were me I’d be the biggest pain in the ass until they sped up a biopsy for me. I want her to be more aggressive now! In the very, very rare case that it was aggressive enough that two weeks might conceivably make a difference, the growth rate would be fast enough that I’d expect she’d be perceiving quite noticeable physical size changes in the lump over fairly short times.  Occasionally, someone on this group reports a very aggressively-growing tumor, and they seem usually to notice changes. I hope everything turns out well.  You’ll let us know, won’t you?  We like hearing good news, and there’s every reason to hope for that in your sister’s case.

Thanks so much for your words, here’s to more good news on this group for everyone, Lhontas

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Benign breast lumps in pregnancy are very common.  Breast cancer in young women is very rare. The pregnancy itself does not affect the risk, when breast cancers are discovered they have usually been growing for about 10 years (this is one reason why it is very rare in young women).

I hope you’re right on this one. Her doctor has told her she’ll have to wait at least two weeks for a biopsy. I don’t understand why there would be any delay on something like this. I wonder if they’re just not taking her seriously because she’s young. Obviously something from the ultrasound has told them the lump is suspect – or they wouldn’t be telling her she needs a biopsy. Why wait? We had a pregnant woman on the group a while ago, who went on to give birth successfully.  I think the approach if cancer -were- diagnosed would be to proceed with surgery as usual, but if chemotherapy were called for, to defer it until after the birth.

She’s worried about breast feeding too. It sounds like her doctor’s just not giving her a lot of answers… Thanks for your feedback Tim, Lhontas – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Tim Jackson

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Benign breast lumps in pregnancy are very common.  Breast cancer in young women is very rare. The pregnancy itself does not affect the risk, when breast cancers are discovered they have usually been growing for about 10 years (this is one reason why it is very rare in young women). I hope you’re right on this one. Her doctor has told her she’ll have to wait at least two weeks for a biopsy. I don’t understand why there would be any delay on something like this.

I wouldn’t worry about the two week delay.  If the lump were cancerous, the growth rates mean that isn’t long enough to make any difference (virtually always). In the very, very rare case that it was aggressive enough that two weeks might conceivably make a difference, the growth rate would be fast enough that I’d expect she’d be perceiving quite noticeable physical size changes in the lump over fairly short times.  Occasionally, someone on this group reports a very aggressively-growing tumor, and they seem usually to notice changes. I hope everything turns out well.  You’ll let us know, won’t you?  We like hearing good news, and there’s every reason to hope for that in your sister’s case. Ann T.

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Hello everyone, My sister has recently discovered a hard lump and is 7 weeks away from her delivery date. Does anyone have any information on breast cancer in young pregnant women? She is 24 years old and this is her second pregnancy. An ultrasound has been done and she has now been referred to the breast clinic for a biopsy. There is no history of breast cancer in our family thus far. Any advice on how to approach treatments or any info at all on breast cancer discovered during pregnancy? Do pregnant women have an increased risk or worse prognosis? Any comments or information would be appreciated, Lhontas

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Hello everyone, My sister has recently discovered a hard lump and is 7 weeks away from her delivery date. Does anyone have any information on breast cancer in young pregnant women? She is 24 years old and this is her second pregnancy. An ultrasound has been done and she has now been referred to the breast clinic for a biopsy. There is no history of breast cancer in our family thus far. Any advice on how to approach treatments or any info at all on breast cancer discovered during pregnancy? Do pregnant women have an increased risk or worse prognosis? Any comments or information would be appreciated, Lhontas

Benign breast lumps in pregnancy are very common.  Breast cancer in young women is very rare. The pregnancy itself does not affect the risk, when breast cancers are discovered they have usually been growing for about 10 years (this is one reason why it is very rare in young women). We had a pregnant woman on the group a while ago, who went on to give birth successfully.  I think the approach if cancer -were- diagnosed would be to proceed with surgery as usual, but if chemotherapy were called for, to defer it until after the birth. Tim Jackson

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Atkins & Pregnancy…. please help

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Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated. : ) Didi 203/184/150 6 weeks on induction

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— rosie http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/politics/elections/2004/whitehou…

: Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves : about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add : something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m : not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and : omega 3/6/9… anything else? : : Any advice would be appreciated. : : : ) Didi : 203/184/150 : 6 weeks on induction : :

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Maybe you should speak to your Dr. about this?  Better yet, your baby is more important right now then losing fat.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated. : ) Didi 203/184/150 6 weeks on induction

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    What do doctors know? Most of them think low-carb is a fad, a scientific quackery. Most doctors know nothing about nutrition beyond what the media hypes and what they learned in medical school decades ago.     That said, I think during pregnancy you should relax, but don’t let down your guard completely. Consume veggies in abundance and fruits in moderate quantities (one a day perhaps, a different fruit each day). Consume healthy fats and diverse proteins in abundance. Butter, eggs, chicken, olive oil, etc. Consume plenty of fish oil too (definitely supplement, do whatever it takes to get at least 1 gram of EPA + DHA per day). Try to avoid more than one serving of real fish per week, as mercury might be a problem for your fetus even more than it’s a problem for you. And also very important, don’t worry about your weight.     I’m not a doctor though so what do I know? :)     -Chad

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Maybe you should speak to your Dr. about this?  Better yet, your baby is more important right now then losing fat. Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated. : ) Didi 203/184/150 6 weeks on induction

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Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits? etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy. I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated. ) Didi 203/184/150 6 weeks on induction

The Atkins site advises to do the Lifetime Maintenance phase during pregnancy and breast feeding, says the weight loss pahses are not suitable. There’s a page about it here, with links to more information too. http://atkins.com/Archive/2002/10/25-756904.html — Junk Food Monkey ~~~~~~ Use the Reply To address only to email me. http://www.junkfoodmonkey.pwp.blueyonder.co.uk

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Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated.

Please use extreme caution with any advice regarding your unborn child. If it were me (a mom), I would definitely be eating those sprouted whole grain  breads and a piece of fruit each day. *

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I have 2 friends who had the same thing happen…while on the Atkins diet, they got pregnant.  What a surprise.  The one who helped me the most said she was pleased as she only gained 22 lbs, and now feels like she has the knowledge to get back down in the ballpark of where she was before she got pregnant…as she was making good progress towards her goal. She went off the diet, and added back in the good things…trying to leave out as much sugar as possible. She said she found only sugar to be her problem food.  Vegetables and bread weren’t a problem, esp. whole wheat bread, or at least a more whole grain (we have lots of rye types here)… I agree with the others who said it more important to see about the health of your child now..worry about weight loss in another 9 mo. or so…just be controlled now. Becky P.

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Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves

CONGRATULATIONS! — Saffire 205/158/125  -  5′2.5" Atkins since 6/14/03 Progress photo:  http://photos.yahoo.com/saffire333

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And also very important, don’t worry about your weight.

Wrong. Worry about your weight. Move to maintenance phase, and maintain constant vigilance! "Atkins for Life" would be a good read now. There is no better time to ruin your health and body because so many will tell you it’s "OK to slack off, you’re eating for two, etc." LCing since 12/01/03- Me- 5′7" 265/210/140 & hubby- 6′ 310/224/180

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writes: And also very important, don’t worry about your weight. Wrong. Worry about your weight. Move to maintenance phase, and maintain constant vigilance! "Atkins for Life" would be a good read now. There is no better time to ruin your health and body because so many will tell you it’s "OK to slack off, you’re eating for two, etc."

This sounds like great advice.  For example, there’s never a good reason to add white sugar back into your diet.  Nor is there any benefit.  Going on maintenance or Atkins for Life or some similar non-loss plan is probably your best bet. Daria 166/145/140 sugar-free since 2/1/04 low-carb since 2/17/04

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The local paper had an article today about mercury contaminated fish.  For pregnant women and children under 15 they recommended no more than 1 meal a month of predatory fish such as walleye.  Apparently they are finding significant mercury contamination in ocean type fish such as tuna as well.

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text –     What do doctors know? Most of them think low-carb is a fad, a scientific quackery. Most doctors know nothing about nutrition beyond what the media hypes and what they learned in medical school decades ago.     That said, I think during pregnancy you should relax, but don’t let down your guard completely. Consume veggies in abundance and fruits in moderate quantities (one a day perhaps, a different fruit each day). Consume healthy fats and diverse proteins in abundance. Butter, eggs, chicken, olive oil, etc. Consume plenty of fish oil too (definitely supplement, do whatever it takes to get at least 1 gram of EPA + DHA per day). Try to avoid more than one serving of real fish per week, as mercury might be a problem for your fetus even more than it’s a problem for you. And also very important, don’t worry about your weight.     I’m not a doctor though so what do I know? :)     -Chad Maybe you should speak to your Dr. about this?  Better yet, your baby is more important right now then losing fat. Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated. : ) Didi 203/184/150 6 weeks on induction

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When you are eating for two, they recommend you add 300 calories more to what you are currently eating.  I was placed on the diabetic diet when I was pregnant because of gestational diabetes.  You need carbs for energy and the baby, it was suggested to me since I am still nursing to eat the carbs that I NEED, but to stay away from the empty refine sugars and you will be just fine :)

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated. : ) Didi 203/184/150 6 weeks on induction

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I agree!  Don’t worry about your weight, but don’t over do it either!  Your baby’s health is more important than you losing weight while you are pregnant.  As I responded later in this newsgroup, just watch your refine sugars and such.  Besides it lowers your risk of gestational diabetes :)

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – writes: And also very important, don’t worry about your weight. Wrong. Worry about your weight. Move to maintenance phase, and maintain constant vigilance! "Atkins for Life" would be a good read now. There is no better time to ruin your health and body because so many will tell you it’s "OK to slack off, you’re eating for two, etc." This sounds like great advice.  For example, there’s never a good reason to add white sugar back into your diet.  Nor is there any benefit.  Going on maintenance or Atkins for Life or some similar non-loss plan is probably your best bet. Daria 166/145/140 sugar-free since 2/1/04 low-carb since 2/17/04

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Just found out we managed to get pregnant… but now sets in the nerves about this diet, ketones harming fetus, etc. etc.  I feel like I need to add something to my diet (whole grains?  more fruits?  etc.) to make sure i’m not lacking anything for this new pregnancy.  I am taking prenatals and omega 3/6/9… anything else? Any advice would be appreciated. : ) Didi 203/184/150 6 weeks on induction

Congratulations :) You should speak with your doctor about this.  In the meantime, here’s what’s most often recommended: http://www.4woman.gov/faq/preg-nutr.htm Best, Kimba  –You did then what you knew how to do, and when you knew better, you did better.  Maya Angelou

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Just found out we managed to get pregnant… 6 weeks on induction

Too bad you didn’t have time to find your CCLL.  If you knew your CCLL you would have instant control of ketosis.  Add 10 grams and you would pop out of ketosis. The Atkins process is designed with fetus safety in mind.  Yet another reason to treat Induction as 14 days, a reason few ever think of.  There are dozens of reasons like this for following the directions of the core process and only staying on Induction for 14 days. So right now you need to take a wild guess what your CCLL is to be able to get out of ketosis.  CCLLs range from 15 to 150 and they cluster around 50ish.  Just to be certain, try at least 100.

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Just found out we managed to get pregnant… 6 weeks on induction Too bad you didn’t have time to find your CCLL.  If you knew your CCLL you would have instant control of ketosis.  Add 10 grams and you would pop out of ketosis. The Atkins process is designed with fetus safety in mind.  Yet another reason to treat Induction as 14 days, a reason few ever think of.  There are dozens of reasons like this for following the directions of the core process and only staying on Induction for 14 days.

Building on this, I’d like to offer some numbers.  CCLLs range from 15-150, so a few can discover there CCLL by failing to get into ketosis during Induction and a few can take 30 weeks to find their CCLL.  But CCLLs do cluster in the 50ish range.  I don’t know the exact statistics, but it may well be that about half of folks fall out of ketosis by 55.  So let’s take that half estimate and work with it: Week 1, 20 Induction.  Week 2, 20 Induction.  Week 3, 25 OWL starts. Week 4, 30.  Week 5, 35.  Week 6, 40, the point where she discovered that Atkins tends to increase fertility.  Week 7, 45.  Week 8, 50. Week 9, out of ketosis at 55. IF the assumption that 50 is the most common CCLL is correct (a guess at best but at least an educated guess) and IF roughly half have a CCLL at 50 or below (more guesswork), the most common time to fall out of ketosis if you strictly follow the core process and ignore all excuses to stay low is week 9. So how many folks fall out of ketosis at 55-?  How many fall out of ketosis at 60+?  How many ladies thought in terms of fetus safety when the first started and used that as their reason to move on to OWL on schedule on day 15?

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15 year old son and OCD~ Paxil?

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My son has been on Paxil for about 7 months. Before that it was Luvox for 3 years and before that it was Prozac for a year. Yesterday my sons doctor informed us that the FDA no longer recommends Paxil for pre 18 year olds because of high suicide rate. Does this sound right? Thanks! Kent

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This is the first I’ve heard of it but I’m sure your doctor knows more about it than I do. How is your son doing on it? If he is having suicidal ideations, I would certainly switch him but if it is really helping him, you might want to take your chances. That is a call that’s up to you and your doc. I do know they said the same thing about Prozac a few years ago. NK "Kent" <kentasher…@hotmail.com> wrote in message

news:UaKcnZRMv_xfla2iU-KYgg@comcast.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> My son has been on Paxil for about 7 months. Before that it was Luvox for 3 > years and before that it was Prozac for a year. Yesterday my sons doctor > informed us that the FDA no longer recommends Paxil for pre 18 year olds > because of high suicide rate. Does this sound right? > Thanks! > Kent

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No suicide, but it is helping- so what the hell do I do? Switch to another med or keep on with the Pax? "No Kidding!" <nokidd…@ria.net(NOSPAMPLEASE)> wrote in message

news:bgpbpv$eid$1@slb9.atl.mindspring.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> This is the first I’ve heard of it but I’m sure your doctor knows more about > it than I do. How is your son doing on it? If he is having suicidal > ideations, I would certainly switch him but if it is really helping him, you > might want to take your chances. That is a call that’s up to you and your > doc. > I do know they said the same thing about Prozac a few years ago. > NK > "Kent" <kentasher…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:UaKcnZRMv_xfla2iU-KYgg@comcast.com… > > My son has been on Paxil for about 7 months. Before that it was Luvox for > 3 > > years and before that it was Prozac for a year. Yesterday my sons doctor > > informed us that the FDA no longer recommends Paxil for pre 18 year olds > > because of high suicide rate. Does this sound right? > > Thanks! > > Kent

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From the Center for Drug Evaluation and Research, http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 1.  Why is FDA recommending that Paxil not be used for the treatment of pediatric major depressive disorder (MDD)?       FDA is currently reviewing reports of an increased risk of suicidal thinking and suicide attempts related to the use of the drug Paxil in children and adolescents under the age of 18 with MDD. Although FDA has not completed this evaluation, we are recommending that Paxil not be used in the treatment of pediatric MDD. There is no evidence that Paxil is effective in children or adolescents with MDD. 2.  Should children using Paxil stop taking it immediately?       It is very important that children and adolescents not stop taking Paxil suddenly, as there is a risk of discontinuation effects. Caretakers of children and adolescents currently taking Paxil should consult their doctor to discuss the best course of action. If they are doing well on Paxil, their doctor may advise that they complete their course of treatment. If their doctor advises that Paxil should be stopped, this should be done gradually to minimize the risk of discontinuation effects. If the dose is not reduced gradually, there is a greater chance of experiencing side effects. If severe unwanted side effects occur, it may be necessary to start taking Paxil again or increase the dose before subsequently decreasing the dose more gradually. 3.  What data is the advice based on?       Three well-controlled clinical trials carried out in children (under 18 years of age) with MDD compared the effect of Paxil and placebo (sugar pills) and found that Paxil did not work any better than placebo in the treatment of MDD.       Based on the results of the new analyses of safety data from pediatric studies, it was found that certain possibly suicide-related behaviors, including suicidal thoughts and attempts, were more common in children receiving Paxil. The risk of these events in the study was about 3 times greater with Paxil compared to placebo. There were no deaths in these trials. For more:  http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 Darryl. On Tue, 5 Aug 2003 14:42:53 -0500, "Kent" <kentasher…@hotmail.com> wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->My son has been on Paxil for about 7 months. Before that it was Luvox for 3 >years and before that it was Prozac for a year. Yesterday my sons doctor >informed us that the FDA no longer recommends Paxil for pre 18 year olds >because of high suicide rate. Does this sound right? >Thanks! >Kent

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Kent, does your son suffer from depression or OCD (or both?). If it’s just OCD and Paxil is helping your son, it may be worth fighting for him to stay on it. Thank you for posting this Darryl. NK "Darryl" <umpol…@hotmail.com> wrote in message

news:cqf4jvcslq2rlltc5rp21cq9u0um7vmnkj@4ax.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> From the Center for Drug Evaluation and Research, > http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 > 1.  Why is FDA recommending that Paxil not be used for the treatment > of pediatric major depressive disorder (MDD)? >       FDA is currently reviewing reports of an increased risk of > suicidal thinking and suicide attempts related to the use of the drug > Paxil in children and adolescents under the age of 18 with MDD. > Although FDA has not completed this evaluation, we are recommending > that Paxil not be used in the treatment of pediatric MDD. There is no > evidence that Paxil is effective in children or adolescents with MDD. > 2.  Should children using Paxil stop taking it immediately? >       It is very important that children and adolescents not stop > taking Paxil suddenly, as there is a risk of discontinuation effects. > Caretakers of children and adolescents currently taking Paxil should > consult their doctor to discuss the best course of action. If they are > doing well on Paxil, their doctor may advise that they complete their > course of treatment. If their doctor advises that Paxil should be > stopped, this should be done gradually to minimize the risk of > discontinuation effects. If the dose is not reduced gradually, there > is a greater chance of experiencing side effects. If severe unwanted > side effects occur, it may be necessary to start taking Paxil again or > increase the dose before subsequently decreasing the dose more > gradually. > 3.  What data is the advice based on? >       Three well-controlled clinical trials carried out in children > (under 18 years of age) with MDD compared the effect of Paxil and > placebo (sugar pills) and found that Paxil did not work any better > than placebo in the treatment of MDD. >       Based on the results of the new analyses of safety data from > pediatric studies, it was found that certain possibly suicide-related > behaviors, including suicidal thoughts and attempts, were more common > in children receiving Paxil. The risk of these events in the study was > about 3 times greater with Paxil compared to placebo. There were no > deaths in these trials. > For more:  http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 > Darryl. > On Tue, 5 Aug 2003 14:42:53 -0500, "Kent" <kentasher…@hotmail.com> > wrote: > >My son has been on Paxil for about 7 months. Before that it was Luvox for 3 > >years and before that it was Prozac for a year. Yesterday my sons doctor > >informed us that the FDA no longer recommends Paxil for pre 18 year olds > >because of high suicide rate. Does this sound right? > >Thanks! > >Kent

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Thanks for all the GREAT info- yes, depressed and OCD~ "No Kidding!" <nokidd…@ria.net(NOSPAMPLEASE)> wrote in message

news:bgutcs$usk$1@slb4.atl.mindspring.net… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Kent, > does your son suffer from depression or OCD (or both?). If it’s just OCD and > Paxil is helping your son, it may be worth fighting for him to stay on it. > Thank you for posting this Darryl. > NK > "Darryl" <umpol…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > news:cqf4jvcslq2rlltc5rp21cq9u0um7vmnkj@4ax.com… > > From the Center for Drug Evaluation and Research, > > http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 > > 1.  Why is FDA recommending that Paxil not be used for the treatment > > of pediatric major depressive disorder (MDD)? > >       FDA is currently reviewing reports of an increased risk of > > suicidal thinking and suicide attempts related to the use of the drug > > Paxil in children and adolescents under the age of 18 with MDD. > > Although FDA has not completed this evaluation, we are recommending > > that Paxil not be used in the treatment of pediatric MDD. There is no > > evidence that Paxil is effective in children or adolescents with MDD. > > 2.  Should children using Paxil stop taking it immediately? > >       It is very important that children and adolescents not stop > > taking Paxil suddenly, as there is a risk of discontinuation effects. > > Caretakers of children and adolescents currently taking Paxil should > > consult their doctor to discuss the best course of action. If they are > > doing well on Paxil, their doctor may advise that they complete their > > course of treatment. If their doctor advises that Paxil should be > > stopped, this should be done gradually to minimize the risk of > > discontinuation effects. If the dose is not reduced gradually, there > > is a greater chance of experiencing side effects. If severe unwanted > > side effects occur, it may be necessary to start taking Paxil again or > > increase the dose before subsequently decreasing the dose more > > gradually. > > 3.  What data is the advice based on? > >       Three well-controlled clinical trials carried out in children > > (under 18 years of age) with MDD compared the effect of Paxil and > > placebo (sugar pills) and found that Paxil did not work any better > > than placebo in the treatment of MDD. > >       Based on the results of the new analyses of safety data from > > pediatric studies, it was found that certain possibly suicide-related > > behaviors, including suicidal thoughts and attempts, were more common > > in children receiving Paxil. The risk of these events in the study was > > about 3 times greater with Paxil compared to placebo. There were no > > deaths in these trials. > > For more:  http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 > > Darryl. > > On Tue, 5 Aug 2003 14:42:53 -0500, "Kent" <kentasher…@hotmail.com> > > wrote: > > >My son has been on Paxil for about 7 months. Before that it was Luvox for > 3 > > >years and before that it was Prozac for a year. Yesterday my sons doctor > > >informed us that the FDA no longer recommends Paxil for pre 18 year olds > > >because of high suicide rate. Does this sound right? > > >Thanks! > > >Kent

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Kent wrote:

 > No suicide, but it is helping- so what the hell do I do? Switch to  > another med or keep on with the Pax? Has your son had any therapy? Specifically, has your son had any CBT for his OCD (and depression)? — ARQ Add a dot on each side of the ‘r’ in my name and a ‘c’ in front of lara to email me.

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What the heck is CBT? He sees a cousiler and his doctor- he has Xanax for his panic attacks that happen on the average of 5 times a month "Ann R Quay" <annrq…@lara.co.uk> wrote in message news:3F33E666.9060204@lara.co.uk… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Kent wrote: >  > No suicide, but it is helping- so what the hell do I do? Switch to >  > another med or keep on with the Pax? > Has your son had any therapy? Specifically, has your son had any CBT for > his OCD (and depression)? > — > ARQ > Add a dot on each side of the ‘r’ in my name > and a ‘c’ in front of lara to email me.

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Kent wrote:

 > What the heck is CBT?  From the newly created ‘ASO Fantasy FAQ’ – question 2. Q: What is CBT? A: First off, if you are currently receiving treatment for OCD and you have not been told about CBT, I suggest you consider looking for a different doctor, psychiatrist, therapist or whoever you are currently seeking treatment from, for CBT is the preferred treatment for OCD. If you have not, at least, been told about CBT, you are not receiving proper treatment. Not receiving proper treatment for OCD is fairly common – probably more common than proper treatment. Ok, what is CBT? Short answer. CBT is Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. Longer answer. This is copied and pasted from –> http://www.ocdla.com/cognitivebehavioraltherapy.html ‘For many years, OCD was thought to be an exceptionally problematic disorder to treat, and was often misdiagnosed. Traditional psychoanalysis consistently had little impact on the disorder, and other psychotherapies were equally unsuccessful. However, over the past fifteen years, developments in Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT) have resulted in a treatment protocol that is especially beneficial for individuals with OCD. In fact, numerous clinical studies conducted over the past fifteen years have conclusively found that CBT, either with or without medication, is dramatically superior to all other forms of treatment for OCD. Compared to traditional psychotherapy, in which sessions are spent merely discussing the client’s problems, CBT is far more proactive. Working together, both the client and the therapist take active roles in assessing the problem, and in devising concrete, active steps towards alleviating the symptoms. Using the Yale-Brown Obsessive Compulsive Scale (YBOCS) and numerous other assessment tools, the therapist helps the client create a detailed list of his or her symptoms. This symptom list is then used as the primary tool in a form of CBT called "Exposure and Response Prevention" (ERP), or "exposure therapy". Using the symptom list, the client experiments during therapy sessions with exposure to his or her fears, starting with the least anxiety-provoking items from the symptom list. Regular "homework" assignments are given so that the client can continue to challenge symptoms between therapy sessions. These homework assignments are specifically designed for each individual client, and are an essential part of treating OCD, OC Spectrum Disorders, and related anxiety disorders. They are particularly valuable in helping clients challenge certain symptoms that occur at home, at work, or at school, and that cannot easily be duplicated in the therapy office. Additionally, a variant of ERP, sometimes called "imaginal exposure," is frequently used in the treatment of OCD, OC Spectrum Disorders, and related anxiety disorders. Imaginal exposure involves using short stories based on the client’s obsessions. These stories are audiotaped and then used as ERP tools, allowing the client to experience exposure to their fearful thoughts. This form of exposure is particularly beneficial for obsessions that cannot be experienced through traditional ERP (e.g., killing one’s spouse or molesting a child). When combined with standard ERP, and other cognitive-behavioral techniques, this type of imaginal exposure can help to greatly reduce the frequency and magnitude of these intrusive obsessions, as well as the individual’s sensitivity to unwanted thoughts and mental images. Following a structured CBT protocol, the client gradually challenges all of his or her symptoms, and learns new, more productive methods of coping with anxiety. Over time, the individual becomes de-sensitized to previously anxiety-provoking situations and thoughts, and the obsessions and compulsions are eliminated, or significantly reduced in frequency and magnitude. Using this treatment approach, most clients make dramatic improvement by meeting with their therapist on a weekly basis over a period of just 4-6 months, followed by two or three "booster sessions". After a short time, many clients also become involved in our ongoing weekly OCD therapy/support group. Some clients may also benefit by having a small number of family or couples therapy sessions to address the impact OCD is having on their relationships. And a minority of clients may require a more intensive approach that includes 2-3 sessions per week or even home visits. CBT Combined with Medication Some individuals with OCD, OC Spectrum Disorders, or related anxiety disorders, may also benefit from combining CBT with one or more medications that are sometimes prescribed for these conditions. The goal of medication, or "pharmacotherapy," is to reduce obsessional anxiety, thereby increasing the individual’s ability to utilize and benefit from CBT. This is particularly helpful with clients for whom the prospect of exposure therapy is so anxiety-provoking that they are initially unwilling to try CBT. For these individuals, after the medication has begun to reduce their obsessions, it is recommended that they complete a regimen of CBT while continuing the pharmacotherapy. Medication may also be beneficial for individuals experiencing depression, which is sometimes present in those with OCD and related disorders, or with other psychiatric conditions. But it is important to stress that CBT is the primary treatment for OCD. Numerous research studies completed over the past fifteen years have concluded that CBT is the most effective treatment for OCD. In fact, in 1997, the Journal of Clinical Psychiatry surveyed over sixty OCD researchers and treatment specialists from across the world in order to determine the best treatment for OCD. The resulting publication, entitled Expert Consensus Treatment for Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder , described CBT as "the psychotherapeutic treatment of choice for children, adolescents and adults with OCD" and noted that it is "the key element of treatment". Despite this endorsement, many clients are tempted to rely on medication alone. But four facts provide a compelling case against the "medication-only" route. First, analyses of numerous studies comparing CBT and pharmacotherapy have concluded that CBT is more effective in both the short and long-term. Second, the potential short-term side-effects of these medications are well-documented and include anxiety, insomnia, nausea, diarrhea, difficulty concentrating, and sexual dysfunction. Conversely, CBT has no side-effects. Third, many of these medications have not been fully studied over an extended period of time, and many researchers and clinicians are concerned about the possibility of long-term side-effects, particularly for children, and for pregnant or breast-feeding women. And finally, studies have shown that when individuals treating OCD exclusively with pharmacotherapy discontinue the medication, as many as 90% may experience a complete return of their OCD symptoms. Conversely, those who complete a course of CBT usually have a far lower rate of relapse. With CBT, the techniques you learn are always with you and provide a set of tools that can immediately be utilized if and when symptoms return.’ — ARQ Add a dot on each side of the ‘r’ in my name and a ‘c’ in front of lara to email me.

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"Kent" <kentasher…@hotmail.com> wrote in message

news:Wsudnc3-a-rTqK6iXTWJiQ@comcast.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Thanks for all the GREAT info- yes, depressed and OCD~ > "No Kidding!" <nokidd…@ria.net(NOSPAMPLEASE)> wrote in message > news:bgutcs$usk$1@slb4.atl.mindspring.net… > > Kent, > > does your son suffer from depression or OCD (or both?). If it’s just OCD > and > > Paxil is helping your son, it may be worth fighting for him to stay on it. > > Thank you for posting this Darryl. > > NK > > "Darryl" <umpol…@hotmail.com> wrote in message > > news:cqf4jvcslq2rlltc5rp21cq9u0um7vmnkj@4ax.com… > > > From the Center for Drug Evaluation and Research, > > > http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 > > > 1.  Why is FDA recommending that Paxil not be used for the treatment > > > of pediatric major depressive disorder (MDD)? > > >       FDA is currently reviewing reports of an increased risk of > > > suicidal thinking and suicide attempts related to the use of the drug > > > Paxil in children and adolescents under the age of 18 with MDD. > > > Although FDA has not completed this evaluation, we are recommending > > > that Paxil not be used in the treatment of pediatric MDD. There is no > > > evidence that Paxil is effective in children or adolescents with MDD. > > > 2.  Should children using Paxil stop taking it immediately? > > >       It is very important that children and adolescents not stop > > > taking Paxil suddenly, as there is a risk of discontinuation effects. > > > Caretakers of children and adolescents currently taking Paxil should > > > consult their doctor to discuss the best course of action. If they are > > > doing well on Paxil, their doctor may advise that they complete their > > > course of treatment. If their doctor advises that Paxil should be > > > stopped, this should be done gradually to minimize the risk of > > > discontinuation effects. If the dose is not reduced gradually, there > > > is a greater chance of experiencing side effects. If severe unwanted > > > side effects occur, it may be necessary to start taking Paxil again or > > > increase the dose before subsequently decreasing the dose more > > > gradually. > > > 3.  What data is the advice based on? > > >       Three well-controlled clinical trials carried out in children > > > (under 18 years of age) with MDD compared the effect of Paxil and > > > placebo (sugar pills) and found that Paxil did not work any better > > > than placebo in the treatment of MDD. > > >       Based on the results of the new analyses of safety data from > > > pediatric studies, it was found that certain possibly suicide-related > > > behaviors, including suicidal thoughts and attempts, were more common > > > in children receiving Paxil. The risk of these events in the study was > > > about 3 times greater with Paxil compared to placebo. There were no > > > deaths in these trials. > > > For more:  http://www.fda.gov/cder/drug/infopage/paxil/paxilQ&A.htm#q1 > > > Darryl. > > > On Tue, 5 Aug 2003 14:42:53 -0500, "Kent" <kentasher…@hotmail.com> > > > wrote: > > > >My son has been on Paxil for about 7 months. Before that it was Luvox > for > > 3 > > > >years and before that it was Prozac for a year. Yesterday my sons > doctor > > > >informed us that the FDA no longer recommends Paxil for pre 18 year > olds > > > >because of high suicide rate. Does this sound right? > > > >Thanks! > > > >Kent

Ann: That is the best description of CBT I have ever read, and it speaks highly of you that you would take the time to draft such a thoughtful lengthy post. You are an angel! I’ve just started CBT, and I seem to be making small strides here.

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mysteriouso2001 wrote:

 > Ann:  >  > That is the best description of CBT I have ever read, and it speaks  > highly of you that you would take the time to draft such a thoughtful  > lengthy post. You are an angel! I’ve just started CBT, and I seem to  > be making small strides here. I’m assuming you’re referring to my ‘ASO Fantasy FAQ CBT question and answer’ post in reply to Kent where he asked ‘What the heck is CBT?’. I didn’t write it (well the long answer bit, I didn’t). I, as I said in the original post, copied and pasted it from –> http://www.ocdla.com/cognitivebehavioraltherapy.html I’m no angel. And plenty of people here can back me up on that. Congratulations on the strides you are making with CBT. — ARQ Add a dot on each side of the ‘r’ in my name and a ‘c’ in front of lara to email me.

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NO alcohol during pregnacny is advised

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Dear alt.support.depression newsgroup, I posted here a while ago about why I think it is dangerous to drink even a small amount of alcohol when pregnant.

But posting the same large message four times is spamming and will get your account closed for bandwidth abuse. — "A belief is not merely an idea the mind possesses; it is an idea that possesses the mind."  Robert Bolton Criswell The Psychic Weatherman

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besides, its never a good idea to drink to excess, especially when

attempting to breastfeed. I suddenly feel so happy I’m not a woman. I can have children and be drunk anyway!

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I posted here a while ago about why I think it is dangerous to drink even a small amount of alcohol when pregnant.

What about drinking while breast feeding? Is that bad, too? I’ve always wondered about these things.

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Dear alt.support.depression newsgroup, I posted here a while ago about why I think it is dangerous to drink even a small amount of alcohol when pregnant. I just received permission to post a letter I received from a woman who spends a lot of her time assisting families who are raising the children whose birth mothers drank.  She offers some quotes from credible sources that all advise NO alcohol during pregnancy.   Subj:    Re: FAS posting Ann, You have experienced what many others have experienced, including myself, and that is the face of denial in the general public.  People have been made to believe that alcohol is safe and healthy.  They have a hard time grasping the fact that alcohol is a psychoactive drug, because it is a legal drug and so widely used.  It is hard for some people to believe that something that gives them so much pleasure could cause someone else so much pain. Although one drink cannot cause FAS, one night of binging might cause brain damage that has subtle but long-lasting effects.  If a woman has a glass or two of wine before she realizes she is pregnant, and does not drink anymore during the rest of her pregnancy, her baby will probably be just fine.  If a woman continues to have a drink or two a day throughout her pregnancy, then the minimal brain damage can occur over and over, with the possiblity of reducing the child’s potential, lowering IQ by several points, and placing the child at risk of learning disorders, ADND, and behavioral difficulties. The more a woman drinks, the greater risk to her baby.  But there is no known safe level of alcohol.  It is impossible to predict which babies will be affected by small amounts of alcohol and which babies will not be affected at all.  It’s not worth taking the risk. I don’t think we need to get upset over one drink during pregnancy, but we should not give the message that one drink a day is okay for a pregnancy mother, as this does pose a danger to the developing baby. Nevertheless, there are doctors who are still telling this to their pregnant patients, in spite of knowledge about the dangers of light drinking that have been reported in recent research. Here are some quotes from credible sources that all advise NO alcohol during pregnancy: http://come-over.to/FAS/ZeroAlcohol.htm Here are some articles and abstracts about credible research that has been done on drinking during pregnancy: http://www.come-over.to/FAS/Research.htm Sometimes when the message is delivered with emotional exaggeration, the facts get lost.  But even when only the facts are presented, there will be those who do not want to believe them, who are uncomfortable with the truth. Some will hear and listen.  Others will not.  If just one young woman heeds the warning and avoids all alcohol during a future pregnancy, then it will have been worth the discomfort you feel with being the target of criticism from others who do not like what you have to say.  Some child will have a good strart in life with all the potential to succeed. You may forward my letter to the groups with whom you discussed this issue if you like.  I will not have time to engage in any debates, however, as I am spending most of my time assisting families who are raising the children whose birth mothers drank.  These kids have ADHD, learning disorders, eratic memory, poor impulse control, immature behavior, stunted social skills, and poor judgment, and so they are constantly in trouble.  It’s a full time job just for me to advocate for these families to get the help they need. So if anyone has questions, they can read the information on the two links, and if they still have questions, they can read the fact sheets and the stories of the children who have been affected by light drinking, as these children with so-called "minor" Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE) are at greater risk for the more serious secondary conditions that commonly occur later (kicked out of school, addicted to alcohol and other drugs, unwanted pregnancies, depression with suicidal ideation, homelessness, prison).  Like I said before, it’s just not worth it.  For the woman, the drink lasts for a little while, her hangover lasts a day.  For the baby, the damage lasts a lifetime. Teresa Kellerman Director, FAS Community Resource Center http://come-over.to/FASCRC/ – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text —— Original Message —– Sent: Tuesday, September 24, 2002 4:43 PM I just posted a message on Usenet recently on misc.kids and misc.kids.pregnancy advising people against even one glass of wine while pregnant and the subtle brain damage that can occur with just a little alcohol, and people were generally unreceptive–making jokes about the post and saying that my assertions were laughable. Fortunately, there were a few people who posted some news articles about how just a small amount of alcohol can hurt, but there were an overwhelming amount who disagreed.  Perhaps my presentation of the information was inaccurate, and I now regret making the post. Perhaps it was too hysterically written. It’s sad though, that people were more keen on poking fun at it rather than reading about the potential dangers. I want to spread this information but fear that I will be met with a lot of resentment + people not wanting to be told what to do. Ann

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Abject, humble apologies

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>Subject: for Harry and Pearly – OT: 37 cent stamp change >From: "Linda Scheimann" uscho…@yahoo.com >Date: 7/1/02 8:12 PM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <afr5mi$gmvo…@ID-131262.news.dfncis.de> >Harry, I have a quick question. I did something dumb this noon and posted a >business letter with a 34 cent stamp only. It’s not something that has to >arrive at a certain time, so I am not worried about delay, but will it >bounce back to me or go on to its destination postage due or??

I don’t have any experience with mail delivery, just sorting. But as to what will happen….would depend on the clerks and mail carriers along the way. You were correct about the two things that can happen. It will be bounced back to you or it will arrive postage due. Sorry I cannot be more helpful. All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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Thanks, Harry. I just feel dumb, dumb, dumb about having done this. Linda

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Harry, I have a quick question. I did something dumb this noon and posted a business letter with a 34 cent stamp only. It’s not something that has to arrive at a certain time, so I am not worried about delay, but will it bounce back to me or go on to its destination postage due or?? Thanks, Linda Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak <pearlyandha…@aol.comity> wrote in message news:20020701210508.16739.00002210@mb-fr.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies > >From: Gail Reed gre…@uic.edu > >Date: 7/1/02 4:09 PM Pacific Daylight Time > >Message-id: <3D20E129.51D…@uic.edu> > >Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak wrote: > >>…I am making the assumption that the estrogen HRT, if it > >> works at all, merely puts things on hold, and when I get off HRT in six > >months > >> or so I will resume where I left off. I can live with this. But it will be > >> easier to live with this in colder weather. > >An excellent point, one I hadn’t considered. > Not to mention working 8 hours a day in a warm environment. The air > conditioning on the work floor is inadaquate for the amont of automated mail > sorting equipment we have. > >> As of this morning (Saturday 29 June) my flashing has gone from every hour > >or > >> so to every two hours or so, this after only three full days on estrogen. > >That’s quite an improvement.  Do you expect further improvement, and if > >so how much, and if not is the current improved level of flashing worth > >the medication risks? > Donna said it might take 2-4 weeks before the changes level off. I think the > improvement justifies the alledged risks, although I have come to the > conclusion that many in ASM seem to have a desire to inflate the actual risk. > Percentages, anyone? > In any case, my pills came with this advisory: "May cause dizziness, > lightheadedness, headache, stomach upset, bloating, or nausea. These effects > should disappear as your body adjusts to the medication." I have none of this. > >> HOWEVER, I am far more concerened about potential adverse mental and > >emotional > >> changes. This is, after all, a female hormone being introduced into a > >> relatively male body. Will there be changes in attitudes and feelings for > >this > >> non-transgendered male that may not be acceptable? Will this affect my > >current > >> "eunuch calm" or not? > >I’m so glad you’re willing to discuss these matters here – I’m very > >curious and I’m getting wonderful information from you.  If I ask too > >many questions or too nosy, just swat my nose with a rolled-up newspaper > >and I’ll behave better.  :-)  Chakolate > This is ASM, and I think the whole idea is share experience, strength,and hope. > To date, I have noted no changes in my mental or emotional processes. > All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to > harryandruschak AT aol DOT com > (310) 835-9202 > "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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>Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >From: Gail Reed gre…@uic.edu >Date: 7/1/02 4:09 PM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <3D20E129.51D…@uic.edu> >Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak wrote: >>…I am making the assumption that the estrogen HRT, if it >> works at all, merely puts things on hold, and when I get off HRT in six >months >> or so I will resume where I left off. I can live with this. But it will be >> easier to live with this in colder weather. >An excellent point, one I hadn’t considered.

Not to mention working 8 hours a day in a warm environment. The air conditioning on the work floor is inadaquate for the amont of automated mail sorting equipment we have. >> As of this morning (Saturday 29 June) my flashing has gone from every hour >or >> so to every two hours or so, this after only three full days on estrogen. >That’s quite an improvement.  Do you expect further improvement, and if >so how much, and if not is the current improved level of flashing worth >the medication risks?

Donna said it might take 2-4 weeks before the changes level off. I think the improvement justifies the alledged risks, although I have come to the conclusion that many in ASM seem to have a desire to inflate the actual risk. Percentages, anyone? In any case, my pills came with this advisory: "May cause dizziness, lightheadedness, headache, stomach upset, bloating, or nausea. These effects should disappear as your body adjusts to the medication." I have none of this. >> HOWEVER, I am far more concerened about potential adverse mental and >emotional >> changes. This is, after all, a female hormone being introduced into a >> relatively male body. Will there be changes in attitudes and feelings for >this >> non-transgendered male that may not be acceptable? Will this affect my >current >> "eunuch calm" or not? >I’m so glad you’re willing to discuss these matters here – I’m very >curious and I’m getting wonderful information from you.  If I ask too >many questions or too nosy, just swat my nose with a rolled-up newspaper >and I’ll behave better.  :-)  Chakolate

This is ASM, and I think the whole idea is share experience, strength,and hope. To date, I have noted no changes in my mental or emotional processes. All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak wrote: >…I am making the assumption that the estrogen HRT, if it > works at all, merely puts things on hold, and when I get off HRT in six months > or so I will resume where I left off. I can live with this. But it will be > easier to live with this in colder weather.

An excellent point, one I hadn’t considered. > As of this morning (Saturday 29 June) my flashing has gone from every hour or > so to every two hours or so, this after only three full days on estrogen.

That’s quite an improvement.  Do you expect further improvement, and if so how much, and if not is the current improved level of flashing worth the medication risks?   > HOWEVER, I am far more concerened about potential adverse mental and emotional > changes. This is, after all, a female hormone being introduced into a > relatively male body. Will there be changes in attitudes and feelings for this > non-transgendered male that may not be acceptable? Will this affect my current > "eunuch calm" or not?

I’m so glad you’re willing to discuss these matters here – I’m very curious and I’m getting wonderful information from you.  If I ask too many questions or too nosy, just swat my nose with a rolled-up newspaper and I’ll behave better.  :-)  Chakolate – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> Anyhow, I see Donna again on 8 July and we will discuss things some more.

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"Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak" <pearlyandha…@aol.comity> wrote in message news:20020629081330.04403.00003353@mb-bd.aol.com… > This is, after all, a female hormone being introduced into a > relatively male body.

You know, this statement really got to me.  (Not in an angry way, exactly, and certainly not at you, Harry.) Look at the phrasing above.  Because you’re a castrate, you refer to your body as "relatively male".  Women who’ve been castrated do not refer to themselves as "relatively female".  Is this part of the medical community’s bias?  Or just the way the general populace looks at it?  Are women’s parts still "unnecessary", but men’s parts so valuable in the ‘man’ makeup that you feel only "relatively male"? You seem "completely male" to me, Harry. My mother had a mastectomy (for what turned out to be a benign condition) when she was 43.  The surgeon (this was 40 years ago) lectured her and said most women had an "emotional attachment" to their breasts.  I always wondered what that man would have said/done if someone had suggested he needed to have a testicle removed. Marilee, pondering things

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >From: "Marilee" mae…@polarcomm.com >Date: 6/29/02 6:12 AM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <afkbnm$egpn…@ID-76373.news.dfncis.de> >"Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak" <pearlyandha…@aol.comity> >wrote in message news:20020629081330.04403.00003353@mb-bd.aol.com… >> This is, after all, a female hormone being introduced into a >> relatively male body. >You know, this statement really got to me.  (Not in an angry way, >exactly, and certainly not at you, Harry.) >Look at the phrasing above.  Because you’re a castrate, you refer to >your body as "relatively male".  Women who’ve been castrated do not >refer to themselves as "relatively female".  Is this part of the >medical community’s bias?  Or just the way the general populace >looks at it?  Are women’s parts still "unnecessary", but men’s parts >so valuable in the ‘man’ makeup that you feel only "relatively >male"? >You seem "completely male" to me, Harry. >My mother had a mastectomy (for what turned out to be a benign >condition) when she was 43.  The surgeon (this was 40 years ago) >lectured her and said most women had an "emotional attachment" to >their breasts.  I always wondered what that man would have said/done >if someone had suggested he needed to have a testicle removed. >Marilee, pondering things

In our current society, men and women do seem to be treated differently by the medical profession. But in any case, society places a huge importance on male sexuality. Perhaps you don’t realize it because you are part of it. But now that I am an outsider…at least that is the way I feel…I cannot help but notice it. This may be irrational, but most human attitudes probably are. All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->From: pearlyandha…@aol.comity  (Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak) >Date: 6/29/02 5:07 PM Pacific Daylight Time >>Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >>From: "Marilee" mae…@polarcomm.com >>Date: 6/29/02 6:12 AM Pacific Daylight Time >>Message-id: <afkbnm$egpn…@ID-76373.news.dfncis.de> >>"Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak" <pearlyandha…@aol.comity> >>wrote in message news:20020629081330.04403.00003353@mb-bd.aol.com… >>> This is, after all, a female hormone being introduced into a >>> relatively male body. >>You know, this statement really got to me.  (Not in an angry way, >>exactly, and certainly not at you, Harry.) >>Look at the phrasing above.  Because you’re a castrate, you refer to >>your body as "relatively male".  Women who’ve been castrated do not >>refer to themselves as "relatively female".  Is this part of the >>medical community’s bias?  Or just the way the general populace >>looks at it?  Are women’s parts still "unnecessary", but men’s parts >>so valuable in the ‘man’ makeup that you feel only "relatively >>male"? >>You seem "completely male" to me, Harry. >>My mother had a mastectomy (for what turned out to be a benign >>condition) when she was 43.  The surgeon (this was 40 years ago) >>lectured her and said most women had an "emotional attachment" to >>their breasts.  I always wondered what that man would have said/done >>if someone had suggested he needed to have a testicle removed. >>Marilee, pondering things >In our current society, men and women do seem to be treated differently by >the >medical profession. But in any case, society places a huge importance on male >sexuality. Perhaps you don’t realize it because you are part of it. But now >that I am an outsider…at least that is the way I feel…I cannot help but >notice it. This may be irrational, but most human attitudes probably are.

Your phrase "relatively male body" also made *me* wince. But I understand your reaction to the stupid standards (part of) society places on males. I am very sorry that you are in this position. But I feel you are a wonderful person and have a heart of gold. Sharon….the problem is either in the hippocampus or the amygdala

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>Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >From: Chakolate gre…@uic.edu >Date: 6/28/02 9:49 PM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <3D1D3C42.9CD78…@uic.edu> >Does your doctor know (or estimate) the aftermath of getting off of >HRT?  I’m wondering about this:  suppose you take the HRT, and get >relief from the flashing. When you get off (I’m assuming you won’t want >to stay on forever) will the flashes start all over again?  I guess what >I’m asking is, is this just a delay of the inevitable?  Or is >information too scarce to know?  Questions, questions, and more >questions…

Indeed a lot of questions. A lot of good questions, really. But as you note, information is scarce. The population of male castrates is small. From what I have read over in The Eunuch Archives, various prostate cancer web sites, as well as here in ASM, I am making the assumption that the estrogen HRT, if it works at all, merely puts things on hold, and when I get off HRT in six months or so I will resume where I left off. I can live with this. But it will be easier to live with this in colder weather. As of this morning (Saturday 29 June) my flashing has gone from every hour or so to every two hours or so, this after only three full days on estrogen. HOWEVER, I am far more concerened about potential adverse mental and emotional changes. This is, after all, a female hormone being introduced into a relatively male body. Will there be changes in attitudes and feelings for this non-transgendered male that may not be acceptable? Will this affect my current "eunuch calm" or not? Anyhow, I see Donna again on 8 July and we will discuss things some more. All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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>By the way, as of 7 PM on Thursday 27 June, after only two full days of use, >the hot flashes are now only every two hours at work, not every hour. Can I >hope for more improvement?

Cool!  And, I hope so! TBird<—– hopeful ~                   ~   "Heresy is hard to burn Because fire is what it’s all about."    - Libby Roderick ~                   ~ I confess, Mr. Allread & I are friends. Please P&E anything you’d like me to see! sixt4tb…@hotmail.com Thanks!

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Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> >Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies > >From: "Martian" jgwea…@erols.com > >Date: 6/25/02 9:32 PM Pacific Daylight Time > >Message-id: <afbfjm$cgpn…@ID-128116.news.dfncis.de> > >Harry, I say try whatever you feel is right for you.  I am not extremely pro > >or con HRT, and believe that each individual must make his or her own > >choices.  My greatest concern is that people do it (or not) after having > >studied and reflected on possible benefits and costs.  I’ve tried various > >therapies when I’ve felt my symptoms were running my life — short-term, > >just as you are planning to do.  I don’t regret it.  I would only suggest > >that you continue to observe and carefully document your experience since > >you are an "early adopter" of such therapy. > Oh, trust me, Donna and I have studied and reflected on possible benifits and > costs, although Donna reminds me that I am her very first castrate. I am not > quite sure what you mean about being an "early adopter" of such therapy. The > use of estrogen as HRT in hypogonadal males not able to use testosterone is not > new, just not well tested, studied, or documented. There are not that many of > us around as compared to hypogonadal females. > And I will definately observe and document my experiences, and discontinue the > estrogfen HRT if circumstances warrent.

Does your doctor know (or estimate) the aftermath of getting off of HRT?  I’m wondering about this:  suppose you take the HRT, and get relief from the flashing. When you get off (I’m assuming you won’t want to stay on forever) will the flashes start all over again?  I guess what I’m asking is, is this just a delay of the inevitable?  Or is information too scarce to know?  Questions, questions, and more questions… Chakolate, who wishes you the best with whatever you decide to do

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Harry: >Thank you. By the way, SAV-ON DRUGS, the pharmacy that I use, felt it was >very >important to put the following warning lable on the bottle of pills. >"Warning: do not use if you are pregnant, plan to become pregnant, or while >breast feeding. Consult your doctor or your physician."

So … what ?   They were afraid you were going to have kittens??? TBird <— <g> ~                   ~   "Heresy is hard to burn Because fire is what it’s all about."    - Libby Roderick ~                   ~ I confess, Mr. Allread & I are friends. Please P&E anything you’d like me to see! sixt4tb…@hotmail.com Thanks!

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- Hide quoted text — Show quoted text ->Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >From: awingedchim…@aol.comnet.com  (A Winged Chimera) >Date: 6/27/02 7:08 AM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <20020627100851.01475.00000…@mb-fa.aol.com> >Harry: >>Thank you. By the way, SAV-ON DRUGS, the pharmacy that I use, felt it was >>very >>important to put the following warning lable on the bottle of pills. >>"Warning: do not use if you are pregnant, plan to become pregnant, or while >>breast feeding. Consult your doctor or your physician." >So … what ?   They were afraid you were going to have kittens??? >TBird <— <g>

Seriously, I am sure the law says they had to put that warning on ALL bottles of premarin. After all, most users will be women. By the way, as of 7 PM on Thursday 27 June, after only two full days of use, the hot flashes are now only every two hours at work, not every hour. Can I hope for more improvement? All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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Harry, your situation is entirely different from naturally menopausal women such as myself.  No apologies are necessary.  Do whatever is right for *you* with my absolute support.  RuthJ Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> When I first joined ASM, Kitten warned me that the natives tended to get > restless when the topic of HRT came up. I have, of course, been reading the > pros and cons, visited other web sites, talked with other men who are > hypogonadal for one reason or another, and in general have tried to do my > homework. I joined ASM because of my hot flashes, and today, 13 months after > castration, I am still getting them. Due to the stress I am under, from the > circumstances of having to file a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, I am still flashing > every hour or so. The flashes alternate between mild and serious. At night I > sleep through the mild ones, and wake up every two hours from the serious ones. > I am having major problems from my lack of sleep. The weather in LA is hot and > getting hotter. I work in hot conditions 8 hours a day at the Post Office, and > my flashing shows no signs whatever of abating in frequency or intensity. > Donna Garnier, my physician, has discussed options with me, and today I > consented to try estrogen, 1.25 mg. of Premarin per day, taken with supper. > Took my first one two hours ago. > Whilst some studies have been done on men who take estrogen in the aftermath of > prostate cancer, the studies tend to be incomplete, contradict each other, and > pretty much leave it up to you to decide what is best. The main advantage is > that it will work for about 70% of the men suffering from hot flashes. The > disadvantage is that one might be in the 30% for whom it is a waste of time and > money. It may or may not also help in thwarting osteoporosis. There have been > no reliable studies done on whether men taking estrogen benefit in the battle > against osteoporosis. The biology of the hypogonadal male and hypogonadal > female are similar but not identical, and what works for one may not work for > the other. > Donna and I discussed other potential side effects. Although some studies have > suggested that there might be an increased chance of heart attack or stroke, > Donna doubts this would ever be a problem. She measured my blood pressure at > 105/60. My cholesterol is great, and my weight is now down to 175 pounds, the > lowest I have been in years. My diet and exercise program is working fine, > although I am quite aware that weight loss is the easy part and that keeping it > off is the hard part. > Another potential side effect is mild feminization of the body, including > gynecomastia. > The most serious side effect may be psychological. Most men with prostate > cancer who have taken estrogen as part of their therapy report that there are > changes in feelings and attitudes that may be unacceptable to non-transgendered > males. This may adversely effect my current "eunuch calm". If it gets bad > enough, I will discontinue the therapy. In any case, Donna and I plan to > discontinue the therapy anyhow once the summer is over and cooler conditions > prevail. > At least my voice won’t change to soprano. > All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to > harryandruschak AT aol DOT com > (310) 835-9202 > "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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>Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >From: Ruth J rcjac…@pacbell.net >Date: 6/26/02 2:07 PM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <3D1A2CF6.1D7ED…@pacbell.net> >Harry, your situation is entirely different from naturally menopausal >women such as myself.  No apologies are necessary.  Do whatever is right >for *you* with my absolute support.  RuthJ

Thank you. By the way, SAV-ON DRUGS, the pharmacy that I use, felt it was very important to put the following warning lable on the bottle of pills. "Warning: do not use if you are pregnant, plan to become pregnant, or while breast feeding. Consult your doctor or your physician." All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> When I first joined ASM, Kitten warned me that the natives tended to get > restless when the topic of HRT came up. I have, of course, been reading the > pros and cons, visited other web sites, talked with other men who are > hypogonadal for one reason or another, and in general have tried to do my > homework. I joined ASM because of my hot flashes, and today, 13 months after > castration, I am still getting them. Due to the stress I am under, from the > circumstances of having to file a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, I am still flashing > every hour or so. The flashes alternate between mild and serious. At night I > sleep through the mild ones, and wake up every two hours from the serious ones. > I am having major problems from my lack of sleep. The weather in LA is hot and > getting hotter. I work in hot conditions 8 hours a day at the Post Office, and > my flashing shows no signs whatever of abating in frequency or intensity. > Donna Garnier, my physician, has discussed options with me, and today I > consented to try estrogen, 1.25 mg. of Premarin per day, taken with supper. > Took my first one two hours ago.

Good heavens, don’t apologize!  You likely have more information on estrogen in the hypogonal male than 95% of women have (re *-menopausal females) when they begin HRT.  And you and your doctor had an intelligent discussion of possible benefits and side effects, and it was your choice – it wasn’t handed to you in a one-size-fits-all prescription without discussion and with argument, should one state that she did not want HRT.  THAT is what gets folks’ backs up here, not whether or not one decides to take HRT.  And somehow I doubt that the population of hypogonadal males is large enough that any pharm company would be revving up a huge TV advertising campaign to market Premarin or Estrace, etc., to your population, with the promise that it will keep you young, dewrinkle your skin, or whatever hoohah the adfolk come up with next. The only thing I can imagine would be an attack trigger would be Premarin, because of its source. I hope it works well for you, Harry, and gets you some relief from the hot flashes. FurPaw

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>Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >From: "Martian" jgwea…@erols.com >Date: 6/25/02 9:32 PM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <afbfjm$cgpn…@ID-128116.news.dfncis.de> >Harry, I say try whatever you feel is right for you.  I am not extremely pro >or con HRT, and believe that each individual must make his or her own >choices.  My greatest concern is that people do it (or not) after having >studied and reflected on possible benefits and costs.  I’ve tried various >therapies when I’ve felt my symptoms were running my life — short-term, >just as you are planning to do.  I don’t regret it.  I would only suggest >that you continue to observe and carefully document your experience since >you are an "early adopter" of such therapy.

Oh, trust me, Donna and I have studied and reflected on possible benifits and costs, although Donna reminds me that I am her very first castrate. I am not quite sure what you mean about being an "early adopter" of such therapy. The use of estrogen as HRT in hypogonadal males not able to use testosterone is not new, just not well tested, studied, or documented. There are not that many of us around as compared to hypogonadal females. And I will definately observe and document my experiences, and discontinue the estrogfen HRT if circumstances warrent. All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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Martian wrote: > Harry, I say try whatever you feel is right for you.

Jane, We missed you, I hope everything is ok!! Welcome back!! sue

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Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak wrote: – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> When I first joined ASM, Kitten warned me that the natives tended to get > restless when the topic of HRT came up. I have, of course, been reading the > pros and cons, visited other web sites, talked with other men who are > hypogonadal for one reason or another, and in general have tried to do my > homework. I joined ASM because of my hot flashes, and today, 13 months after > castration, I am still getting them. Due to the stress I am under, from the > circumstances of having to file a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, I am still flashing > every hour or so. The flashes alternate between mild and serious. At night I > sleep through the mild ones, and wake up every two hours from the serious ones. > I am having major problems from my lack of sleep. The weather in LA is hot and > getting hotter. I work in hot conditions 8 hours a day at the Post Office, and > my flashing shows no signs whatever of abating in frequency or intensity. > Donna Garnier, my physician, has discussed options with me, and today I > consented to try estrogen, 1.25 mg. of Premarin per day, taken with supper. > Took my first one two hours ago.

Well, shoot, Harry, nothing to apologize. Even the most ardent critics of HRT here 9and I count myself among them) tend to believe that people have a right to make their own medical choices. In my case, the only reason I even go on about this sort of thing is a believe that they should be *informed* choices, based on one’s personal assessment of risks and benefits. Sounds like you’ve made exactly that kind of decision; you have no need to apologize to anyone. I hope it works for you – and I’d be interested in hearing if it does. –Pat Kight kig…@peak.org

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>From: "Martian" jgwea…@erols.com >Date: 6/25/02 9:32 PM Pacific Daylight Time

Jane..where have you been? How are you? Sharon….the problem is either in the hippocampus or the amygdala

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>Subject: Re: Abject, humble apologies >From: awingedchim…@aol.comnet.com  (A Winged Chimera) >Date: 6/25/02 9:20 PM Pacific Daylight Time >Message-id: <20020626002007.01611.00001…@mb-cg.aol.com> >Harry – good luck with all of that. >And give Pearly some scritches for me.

Thank you for your support. I’ll pass on the ear scritchs to Pearly. When I am seated at this computer, she tends to wander all around me meowing plaintively. I do pet her and scritch her ears. But she REFUSES to jump into my lap, and the few times I have picked her up and put her in my lap, she promptly gets off. She is not a lap cat, and probably never will be. At the moment she is on the heating pad in my bed, just resting. All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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I can sympathize, re: working in hot conditions.  I sometimes think the whole country’s air conditioned, except for classrooms. ;-)   Then, when a hot flash kicks in, on top of already being sweltering – not fun.  Good luck – it sounds like you’re making an intelligent/informed choice, after reading up on the whole deal. Cathy — "Staccato signals of constant information…" ("The Boy in the Bubble")  Paul Simon "Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak" <pearlyandha…@aol.comity> wrote in message news:20020625231647.00917.00000168@mb-mo.aol.com… – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text -> When I first joined ASM, Kitten warned me that the natives tended to get > restless when the topic of HRT came up. I have, of course, been reading the > pros and cons, visited other web sites, talked with other men who are > hypogonadal for one reason or another, and in general have tried to do my > homework. I joined ASM because of my hot flashes, and today, 13 months after > castration, I am still getting them. Due to the stress I am under, from the > circumstances of having to file a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, I am still flashing > every hour or so. The flashes alternate between mild and serious. At night I > sleep through the mild ones, and wake up every two hours from the serious ones. > I am having major problems from my lack of sleep. The weather in LA is hot and > getting hotter. I work in hot conditions 8 hours a day at the Post Office, and > my flashing shows no signs whatever of abating in frequency or intensity. > Donna Garnier, my physician, has discussed options with me, and today I > consented to try estrogen, 1.25 mg. of Premarin per day, taken with supper. > Took my first one two hours ago. > Whilst some studies have been done on men who take estrogen in the aftermath of > prostate cancer, the studies tend to be incomplete, contradict each other, and > pretty much leave it up to you to decide what is best. The main advantage is > that it will work for about 70% of the men suffering from hot flashes. The > disadvantage is that one might be in the 30% for whom it is a waste of time and > money. It may or may not also help in thwarting osteoporosis. There have been > no reliable studies done on whether men taking estrogen benefit in the battle > against osteoporosis. The biology of the hypogonadal male and hypogonadal > female are similar but not identical, and what works for one may not work for > the other. > Donna and I discussed other potential side effects. Although some studies have > suggested that there might be an increased chance of heart attack or stroke, > Donna doubts this would ever be a problem. She measured my blood pressure at > 105/60. My cholesterol is great, and my weight is now down to 175 pounds, the > lowest I have been in years. My diet and exercise program is working fine, > although I am quite aware that weight loss is the easy part and that keeping it > off is the hard part. > Another potential side effect is mild feminization of the body, including > gynecomastia. > The most serious side effect may be psychological. Most men with prostate > cancer who have taken estrogen as part of their therapy report that there are > changes in feelings and attitudes that may be unacceptable to non-transgendered > males. This may adversely effect my current "eunuch calm". If it gets bad > enough, I will discontinue the therapy. In any case, Donna and I plan to > discontinue the therapy anyhow once the summer is over and cooler conditions > prevail. > At least my voice won’t change to soprano. > All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to > harryandruschak AT aol DOT com > (310) 835-9202 > "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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When I first joined ASM, Kitten warned me that the natives tended to get restless when the topic of HRT came up. I have, of course, been reading the pros and cons, visited other web sites, talked with other men who are hypogonadal for one reason or another, and in general have tried to do my homework. I joined ASM because of my hot flashes, and today, 13 months after castration, I am still getting them. Due to the stress I am under, from the circumstances of having to file a Chapter 13 bankruptcy, I am still flashing every hour or so. The flashes alternate between mild and serious. At night I sleep through the mild ones, and wake up every two hours from the serious ones. I am having major problems from my lack of sleep. The weather in LA is hot and getting hotter. I work in hot conditions 8 hours a day at the Post Office, and my flashing shows no signs whatever of abating in frequency or intensity. Donna Garnier, my physician, has discussed options with me, and today I consented to try estrogen, 1.25 mg. of Premarin per day, taken with supper. Took my first one two hours ago. Whilst some studies have been done on men who take estrogen in the aftermath of prostate cancer, the studies tend to be incomplete, contradict each other, and pretty much leave it up to you to decide what is best. The main advantage is that it will work for about 70% of the men suffering from hot flashes. The disadvantage is that one might be in the 30% for whom it is a waste of time and money. It may or may not also help in thwarting osteoporosis. There have been no reliable studies done on whether men taking estrogen benefit in the battle against osteoporosis. The biology of the hypogonadal male and hypogonadal female are similar but not identical, and what works for one may not work for the other. Donna and I discussed other potential side effects. Although some studies have suggested that there might be an increased chance of heart attack or stroke, Donna doubts this would ever be a problem. She measured my blood pressure at 105/60. My cholesterol is great, and my weight is now down to 175 pounds, the lowest I have been in years. My diet and exercise program is working fine, although I am quite aware that weight loss is the easy part and that keeping it off is the hard part. Another potential side effect is mild feminization of the body, including gynecomastia. The most serious side effect may be psychological. Most men with prostate cancer who have taken estrogen as part of their therapy report that there are changes in feelings and attitudes that may be unacceptable to non-transgendered males. This may adversely effect my current "eunuch calm". If it gets bad enough, I will discontinue the therapy. In any case, Donna and I plan to discontinue the therapy anyhow once the summer is over and cooler conditions prevail. At least my voice won’t change to soprano. All E-mail to this screen name is blocked to thwart spammers. Reply to harryandruschak AT aol DOT com (310) 835-9202 "Behold, I am a dry tree."

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Harry – good luck with all of that. And give Pearly some scritches for me. TBird <—- :-) ~                   ~   "Heresy is hard to burn Because fire is what it’s all about."    - Libby Roderick ~                   ~ I confess, Mr. Allread & I are friends. Please P&E anything you’d like me to see! sixt4tb…@hotmail.com Thanks!

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"Pearly the cat and Harry Andruschak" <pearlyandha…@aol.comity> wrote in message news:20020625231647.00917.00000168@mb-mo.aol.com… > When I first joined ASM, Kitten warned me that the natives tended to get > restless when the topic of HRT came up. I have, of course, been reading the > pros and cons, visited other web sites, talked with other men who are > hypogonadal for one reason or another, and in general have tried to do my > homework. I joined ASM because of my hot flashes, and today, 13 months after > castration, I am still getting them. Due to the stress I am under, (snip)

In any case, Donna and I plan to > discontinue the therapy anyhow once the summer is over and cooler conditions > prevail.

Harry, I say try whatever you feel is right for you.  I am not extremely pro or con HRT, and believe that each individual must make his or her own choices.  My greatest concern is that people do it (or not) after having studied and reflected on possible benefits and costs.  I’ve tried various therapies when I’ve felt my symptoms were running my life — short-term, just as you are planning to do.  I don’t regret it.  I would only suggest that you continue to observe and carefully document your experience since you are an "early adopter" of such therapy. –Jane

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pregnancy the cure?

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I don’t know about pregnancy, but my neuro has told me that many women see a sizable decrease in the number of migraines after they go through menopause; that the estrogen level drops off, and that estrogen is linked to migraines somehow. But don’t go by me!  I went through the change several years back, thanks to a total hysterectomy, and my migraines didn’t back off much. Ywif’esMMV. Ginnie – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife  has been having migraines for quite about six months. It seems we’ve been through everything including many, many trips to the ER. She  definitely finds some cocktails (i.e. Imitrix & Midrin) work from time to time but they generally lose their potency and she needs to switch to Maxalt. She’s on Inderal, Paxil daily as preventative and sometimes gets through a month  w/o a migraine. Generally during and right before her period she undoubtedly wi ll get a migraine or at least get the ‘tingling’. Anyway, to get to my point. Her mother had also suffered from migraines and clai med they all the sudden stoped after her second pregnancy. She said that going t hrough the pregnancy (or so doctors said) changed her hormone balance permanentl y which somehow cured the migraines. Has anyone ever heard of this?

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Oh great.  I’m truly happy for your wife and her mother, but where’s that leave us guys?!  :-) – Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife  has been having migraines for quite about six months. It seems we’ve been through everything including many, many trips to the ER. She  definitely finds some cocktails (i.e. Imitrix & Midrin) work from time to time but they generally lose their potency and she needs to switch to Maxalt. She’s on Inderal, Paxil daily as preventative and sometimes gets through a month  w/o a migraine. Generally during and right before her period she undoubtedly wi ll get a migraine or at least get the ‘tingling’. Anyway, to get to my point. Her mother had also suffered from migraines and clai med they all the sudden stoped after her second pregnancy. She said that going t hrough the pregnancy (or so doctors said) changed her hormone balance permanentl y which somehow cured the migraines. Has anyone ever heard of this?

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My wife  has been having migraines for quite about six months. It seems we’ve been through everything including many, many trips to the ER. She  definitely finds some cocktails (i.e. Imitrix & Midrin) work from time to time but they generally lose their potency and she needs to switch to Maxalt. She’s on Inderal, Paxil daily as preventative and sometimes gets through a month  w/o a migraine. Generally during and right before her period she undoubtedly wi ll get a migraine or at least get the ‘tingling’. Anyway, to get to my point. Her mother had also suffered from migraines and clai med they all the sudden stoped after her second pregnancy. She said that going t hrough the pregnancy (or so doctors said) changed her hormone balance permanentl y which somehow cured the migraines. Has anyone ever heard of this?

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My wife  has been having migraines for quite about six months. It seems we’ve been through everything including many, many trips to the ER. She definitely finds some cocktails (i.e. Imitrix & Midrin) work from time to time but they generally lose their potency and she needs to switch to Maxalt.

I’m sorry she is in so much pain.  Is she working with a headache specialist? She’s on Inderal, Paxil daily as preventative and sometimes gets through a month w/o a migraine. Generally during and right before her period she undoubtedly will get a migraine or at least get the ‘tingling’. Anyway, to get to my point. Her mother had also suffered from migraines and claimed they all the sudden stoped after her second pregnancy. She said that going through the pregnancy (or so doctors said) changed her hormone balance permanently which somehow cured the migraines. Has anyone ever heard of this?

This looks like a very dangerous and unreliable way to treat migraines. My mother suffered severe migraines when she was pregnant (she never had them before.)  Treating migraines can be especially difficult during pregnancy.  So if getting pregnant does not immediately cure your wife’s migraines, she could have a very painful 9 months.  And what happens after that?  Caring for a newborn is hard enough when you don’t have migraines.   Your mother-in-law said the migraines stopped after her *second* pregnancy, which implies your wife might need to go through several years of suffering for this "treatment."  Pregnancy, giving birth, and caring for an infant are a physical strain even for a woman who starts the process in good health.  If you and your wife really really want to have a baby, it might be worth it for her to get pregnant.  But don’t plan for it to cure her migraines. If you want to explore the possibility of hormone changes, you might talk with an endocrinologist about different kinds of birth control pills.  There are a LOT of different formulations.  While some women have headaches as a side effect from some birth control pills, experienced doctors know that some women with hormone-related migraines can use certain birth control pills as preventatives.  It might take a few months to find the right pill and the right dose. (You might need to consult an endocrinologist, not just a neuro.) If it doesn’t work out, you wouldn’t be stuck with a pregnancy for 9 months…not to mention a child for 18 years. Adrian Turtle sidewalk radical

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My migraines stopped during pregnancy … 2 of ‘em.  They resumed following delivery.  I only didn’t stay pregnant as continuously as possible because they make you take the resulting babies home & raise them.  Pregnancy itself was bliss. After menapause, my migraines gradually (over about 20 years) changed to being more frequent & less severe.  I only get a killer every now & then, but at 66 I still get them occassionally.  Women’s hormones are extremely variable (person to person).  As a result their responses to these major hormonal changes (pregnancy & childbirth) is also quite variable. Good luck to you & your wife.

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She said that going t hrough the pregnancy (or so doctors said) changed her hormone balance permanentl y which somehow cured the migraines. Has anyone ever heard of this?

When I was pregnant with my second child I had no migraines, not even a tension headache. Then with my third and fourth I had horrible migraine,go figure!   Toty

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A friend’s doctor told her that 1 in 3 female migraine suffers see a reduction in migraines after a pregnancy.  I had another friend that never had a migraine again after she went through her pregnancy. Jason

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My wife  has been having migraines for quite about six months. It seems we’ve been through everything including many, many trips to the ER. She  definitely finds some cocktails (i.e. Imitrix & Midrin) work from time to time but they generally lose their potency and she needs to switch to Maxalt. She’s on Inderal, Paxil daily as preventative and sometimes gets through a month  w/o a migraine. Generally during and right before her period she undoubtedly wi ll get a migraine or at least get the ‘tingling’. Anyway, to get to my point. Her mother had also suffered from migraines and clai med they all the sudden stoped after her second pregnancy. She said that going t hrough the pregnancy (or so doctors said) changed her hormone balance permanentl y which somehow cured the migraines. Has anyone ever heard of this?

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My migraines stopped during pregnancy … 2 of ‘em.  They resumed following delivery.

I had the exact same experience. Both my ob/gyn doctor and my neurologist said that they had observed this happening with other patients. But every woman is different, just as you say. My boss used to have terrible migraines <only when she was pregnant. I certainly wouldn’t consider getting pregnant just to test a theory. I only didn’t stay pregnant as continuously as possible because they make you take the resulting babies home & raise them.

I know that this is a serious subject and all, but LOL for real! I love the way that you phrased this. :-) thanks for the chuckle, ~ Amy

– Hide quoted text — Show quoted text – My migraines stopped during pregnancy … 2 of ‘em.  They resumed following delivery.  I only didn’t stay pregnant as continuously as possible because they make you take the resulting babies home & raise them.  Pregnancy itself was bliss. After menapause, my migraines gradually (over about 20 years) changed to being more frequent & less severe.  I only get a killer every now & then, but at 66 I still get them occassionally.  Women’s hormones are extremely variable (person to person).  As a result their responses to these major hormonal changes (pregnancy & childbirth) is also quite variable. Good luck to you & your wife.

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AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHNOOOOOOO!! (Sorry, your subject line got to me….) :^) Dana

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After menapause, my migraines gradually (over about 20 years) changed to being more frequent & less severe.

Catherine   Just like mine,  I am 70 and I have daily headaches. Hugs   Toty

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A friend’s doctor told her that 1 in 3 female migraine suffers see a reduction in migraines after a pregnancy.  I had another friend that never had a migraine again after she went through her pregnancy. Jason

Sadly I didn’t start getting migraines until after pregnancy :( Trust my metabolism to be da*ned awkward ;-) Cheers, helen s Get lost before sending a reply Any speliong mistakes aR the result of my cats sitting on the keyboaRRRDdd

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Oh great.  I’m truly happy for your wife and her mother, but where’s that leave us guys?!  :-)

Hey Chuck, My thoughts exactly! Should we try to get… well… you know… nahhh… even if it worked it wouldn’t work. rich

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My migraines stopped during pregnancy … 2 of ‘em.  They resumed following delivery. I had the exact same experience. Both my ob/gyn doctor and my neurologist said that they had observed this happening with other patients. But every woman is different, just as you say. My boss used to have terrible migraines <only when she was pregnant. I certainly wouldn’t consider getting pregnant just to test a theory.

Actually, every pregnancy is different.  One of my two totally migraine free times was during my first pregnancy (the other was one of the times I was on birth control pills).  However, my second worst time of migraines started during my second pregnancy.  I was expecting a nice migraine free time and instead had, effectively, an 8 month migraine. My migraines also resumed after my first pregnancy and they were horrible but I traced that to breast feeding.  Now, the vast majority of women find their migraines eased by breast feeding but I wasn’t one them.  I didn’t try to breast feed with my second child (I felt like a failure after the first one and I really wanted to try some preventatives to get the migraines under control–so many of them aren’t recommended for breast feeding). Georgia

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Jadelee111512 <jadelee111…@aol.com> wrote in message

news:20010720212025.10536.00000447@ng-cp1.aol.com… > >From: g5r3e…@yahoo.com  (green532) > >1. How long after child birth does woman become capable of becoming > >pregnant again. Is it immediate?

That reminds me of the old medical students’ joke: Q. How soon after childbirth is it safe to have sex again? A. Gentlemen wait until the placenta is delivered.

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>From: "Whisper" >That 13-15th day is also a myth..

For women who are regular and pay close attention to their cycles, it is not a myth.  Not ALL women ovulate at the same time which is why I advised not taking chances and using birth control.  The poster asked when is ovulation most likely to occur. woman ovulate at different times during >their cycles….Drs tend to use the day 14 rule.. but it doesn’t work for >all women.. the only way to know for sure is to chart your cycles..

Nothing on this planet works for everyone :-) *jadelee*                                                                      

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jadelee111…@aol.com (Jadelee111512) wrote in message <news:20010722123537.10445.00000549@ng-cp1.aol.com>… > Nothing on this planet works for everyone :-)

Not even Murphy’s Law works all the time. — GaLE

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green532" <g5r3e…@yahoo.com> wrote in message

news:9d2621d8.0107181830.63056f94@posting.google.com… > hello, >      I have a few questions > 1. How long after child birth does woman become capable of becoming > pregnant again. Is it immediate?

Fertility can resume very shortly after childbirth.   If a woman is not breastfeeding, she may have her first period within 6 weeks after giving birth, and therefore, is fertile once again. > 2. What is the best time for sexual intercourse to avoid pregnancy?

You would want to refrain from intercourse any time around ovulation.  An extremely conservative rule of thumb is from 1-3 days before ***and*** after ovulation.  The key is to be able to identify ovulation in the woman.  Very difficult to do unless you wish to study Natural Family Planning. Smartcookie

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>1. How long after child birth does woman >become capable of becoming pregnant again. >Is it immediate?

My sisters after me were born 10 months apart — and the sister directly after me was 6 weeks early!  My mom was pregnant before my sister was actually "due".  She lectured all FIVE of us girls that immediatlely after childbirth is our most fertile time. :) >2. What is the best time for sexual intercourseto >avoid pregnancy?

During her period?  :)  Use birth control.   I’m not sure why you posted both questions at the same time.  If she just had a baby don’t have intercourse until the doc recommends it –standard is six weeks.  We didn’t wait that long though.  If you are trying to avoid pregnancy AT LEAST use a condom.  My peak ovulation <primo pregnancy time> is about 12 days after my period.  But you can get pregnant any time EVEN if you "pull out".  Women are unpredictable, don’t ya know? :)  If ya don’t know that you shouldn’t be dallying anyway. :)     >thanks

You’re welcome. amy

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